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I thought the OP's issue was resolved. For this episode.

 

Wasn't it, Walk?

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Bottom line - YOU have to decide if this is what you want your life to be like forever. This man is not going to change who he is, so how your relationship dynamtic is now, is going to be like this forever. IF you can deal with the up's and down's, hot and cold moments, then stick with him. Settle for someone who treats you like crap, doesn't put you first, keeps you waiting and wanting while he gets to do what he pleases and gets away with it.

 

I am sorry to sound harsh Walk, it's just the reality is, you're unhappy most of the time and you settle for the tiny moments he's nice to you and then you feel life is good again between you two...And those moments don't last long before you get upset again. HE isn't meeting many of your needs, and it's always on his terms. There's no middle ground or compromising going on and it's only going to get worse as the years fly on by.

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I thought the OP's issue was resolved. For this episode.

 

Wasn't it, Walk?

 

Yeah.. We had it resolved by the next afternoon. (this was two weeks ago)

 

All has been fine since... no complaints. We've spent the past two weeks together hanging out, laughing and having fun.

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