when do the sad times stop

[once removed]

I understand he moved on. I also understand he could not give me the one basic thing I asked for honesty. but when do I stop getting the sads. I'm so tired of going though the sad times. Part of me keeps hoping this is just a passing thing and things will go forward. However I know its over, how could I trust again? How could I let him in agian. /sigh. I just want to move on

[BenThereDunThat]

aww, sweetie. They will stop, I promise. I know it doesn't feel like it right now.

 

When I was going through it, I thought I would NEVER get over it. But I did!

 

I know you will, too.

 

(((hugs)))

[RealityCheck]

I understand he moved on. I also understand he could not give me the one basic thing I asked for honesty. but when do I stop getting the sads. I'm so tired of going though the sad times. Part of me keeps hoping this is just a passing thing and things will go forward. However I know its over, how could I trust again? How could I let him in agian. /sigh. I just want to move on

 

There will always be saddness in a loss. Its all part of the process.

 

We all would like the saddness and pain to go away tomorrow, unfortunately we are not equipped to move that quickly. Each person has their own time to heal. Its not time that heals, its what we do in that time that allows the movement tolerable.

 

Never allow one bad experience to close down your heart. He is only one Man and there are plenty available who do not possess the deceitful trait.

 

Over can be a good thing. I look at it as though, I deserve better.

 

Much peace.

[Brittanyjean06]

As we grow up we begin to realize that pain doesn't just last for a cuple of days or even weeks. Usually months and sometimes years. I'm sorry your feeling sad believe me I have my downs too but time will go by and you will begin to see things clearly. It is very difficult to KNOW that your love has moved on, its indeninable to us for a while and so surreal. But you will get through it YOU WILL