After Party Posted September 16, 2006 Posted September 16, 2006 Ok guys, I have a question like most ppl do on here ha, There is this girl that I cannot get off my mind and I have know her for awhile anyway I liked her 4ever and I told her but she just got out of a relationship but the thing is we kissed several times but either I was drunk or we both were so the 1st question is I know ppl kiss when drunk but 4 times does this mean that there is more? #2 I moved about 20 mins away and I stiill cannot get her out of my head no matter what I think of her everyday almost min, do u think there is a chance and how can I get her to like me "more" and want me?! lil help?!
Author After Party Posted September 24, 2006 Author Posted September 24, 2006 I assumed ppl on here were on here to help?! But I get like 38 views but no advice?!! cmon now!
Alcumena Posted September 24, 2006 Posted September 24, 2006 Hey, hey... don't feel bad. Happened to me, too. Sometimes people just don't respond. It's OK. Anyway... why don't you tell us a little more first. She must have said or indicated something about your kissing. Does she know you feel so strongly about her?
Author After Party Posted September 30, 2006 Author Posted September 30, 2006 Thanks for at least acting interested haha. What do u mean indicated kiss's? And yes I have told her several times, I use to be great friends with her but we dont talk really at all, I sent her a text message that said I cannot stop thinking about u, and a couple of days later I sent another one that just said every day and night. But never got any response..
Green Posted September 30, 2006 Posted September 30, 2006 first of all enough with your text messages, second of all just call her up and ask her out already. It doesnt mean anything that you kissed her heck these days you could have brought her home and had sex with her and it wouldnt have meant your going to get her to be your gf or anything. so ask her out and see how it goes, dont let her know you care about her yet just act like your a curiouse guy checking out one of your many options and enough of this I think of you every night and day crap weve all felt that way at least I have but you can say it to some girl you've just kissed a couple of times its to risky
Yamaha Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 Thanks for at least acting interested haha. What do u mean indicated kiss's? And yes I have told her several times, I use to be great friends with her but we don't talk really at all, I sent her a text message that said I cannot stop thinking about u, and a couple of days later I sent another one that just said every day and night. But never got any response.. This is your answer. She doesn't have any interest in you other than as a friend. You will just have to let her go and date a gal who has a romantic interest in you.
Pink Amulet Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 Wow, okay it's a safe bet she is not interested- let it go. You told her you liked her, she didn't respond. Now you are still smsing her. I can assure you she is laughing about it with her friends. Sorry to be harsh, but I feel as though you need a good slap in the face to let this one go. So no, you can't "get some" P.S people don't write back if your post is difficult to read (a.k.a spelling mistakes, and one LONG paragraph of a punctuation free sentence.)
Green Posted October 1, 2006 Posted October 1, 2006 P.S people don't write back if your post is difficult to read (a.k.a spelling mistakes, and one LONG paragraph of a punctuation free sentence.) hmmm... who could that be
Author After Party Posted October 5, 2006 Author Posted October 5, 2006 Thanks everyone, I needed someone to say something to me like that, but should I say anything to her?
Mystic Gohan Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 just ask her outright, the worst she can say is no, i did it with the girl i liked and she gave me a response which is more like a riddle wrapped in an enigma wrapped in concrete boots so when you ask her make sure you get a clear and honest response, please take a look and respond to the like below: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t100713/
Author After Party Posted October 8, 2006 Author Posted October 8, 2006 Well the thing is she is/was talking to this dude, I have asked her straight out once before but it was mostly group things, when I brought to her attention on how I felt she said I dont act it ( and this is when she was in a relationship) and the reason I told her is because I was considering moving and wanted her to know b4 I left, her reply to it ( I think it was to that) was " I love you and miss you 2 but its easier to run" ( I didnt really even see her much anymore). So that through me off completly... I didnt know if we were talking about the same thing.
Green Posted October 8, 2006 Posted October 8, 2006 Just forget her I'm bored of her already. You need to make an effort to like some one else
Slickkk Posted October 8, 2006 Posted October 8, 2006 Wow The WORST possible things you could have done were told her how much you liked her, and that you could not keep her off your mind...(unless of couse of course you slapped her silly, or verbally abused her)... This decreases attraction - It does not surprise me she never replied to you, she probably thinks you are some obsessive freak who would want to stalk her at a given oppurtunity I dont see how this situation is recoverable...but learn from your mistakes, and never think so much about one girl (flirt with as many as you can) or tell one again how much you love her...(this is strange wussy behaviour) Your aim is to make her attracted to you - you can love a girl as much as you want, but that is not what determines whether or not she will like you back...when you like a girl too much, you will act nervous/serious/reserved with her and this will backfire big time
Author After Party Posted October 9, 2006 Author Posted October 9, 2006 Well yea that makes since and again thats what drinking causes is blirting things out haha. But the thing is its like she "was" trying to lure me back in at one time or another bc after I told her and I didnt say anything to her anymore I got a message from her sometime late at night just saying " Miss you"... Im thinking of moving and maybe that would help lol.
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