i dont know... girl at bus stop

[Guest]

hi im in a wee bit of confusion.

I started college a two weeks ago. when i was taking the bus i noticed a girl standing waiting for it as well. I felt attracted to her and thought 'yeah well maybelater' so i didnt approach her or anything. A few days ago she was in the bus stop again and the bus was nowhere to be seen. I complained out loud that the bus was late and out of nowhere she noticed me and she said hi with a smile (although i did catch her glancing over at me before ). i went over to her to start a conversation and we started talking. she asked me what i did at college andwhere im from we talked for a bit. She kept playing with her hair. the bus came late so we got on. she sat in the right side of the bus and i sat in the left. i could feel and see that she kept looking over at touching with her hair. At the end we got off (she got off first cuz i let her), and she was waiting outside the bus as if waiting for me to say something before we went our separate ways to lessons. i didnt have a clue what to do so i asked her name. i told her mine and i said 'so i guess ill see you soon then'. we went our separate ways.

 

Two days later i was looking forwards to getting the bus cuz she told me she was taking it so i waited eagerly thinking 'yep ill give her my number'. she came late with another girl from her class to the bus stop. that girl really annoyed me cuz shes the sort that talks talks talks and its loud. we couldnt talk or anything cuz of that other girl. the bus came, i got on, she got on and the other loud one got on. The girl that i like didnt seem to want to talk to her (she was really quiet around the loud one). maybe she wanted to talk to me as well so she was angry with her. when we got off i let the girls through to get off first. She walked past smiled and went with the other girl to her class (we were really late to college so i guess we couldnt stop and talk). i felt like a friggin idiot cuz i really wanted to talk to her and get her number. i like her and feel an attraction and i know for a fact that shes getting the bus next week with me so hopefully then i will talk to her. im just confused on what to do, i dont even know if shes interested in me. help me please. sorry its so vague.

[Guest]

hey, all i can is that the girl likes you. myself being a girl i would want you to make the first move. I think she wants you to give her your number so that you two can do something together, but she might be afraid to make a move cos she dont think you like her. As for her friend in the bus, just forget that!, hopefully shell be on her own next time so you two can hit it off again. then again im thinking from a girls point of view!

[alfmetalhead]

Oh man! Its all set to happen in my opinion (the signs are there). just wait and be patient. it will be worth it. good things come to those who wait. good luck mate!

[Green]

You need to act, heck next week may already be to late some other guy may get her this girl is clearly what I refer to as ripe for the picking. You need to ask her for her number along with any other girl you make small talk with. Any time you are any where be it the bus stop or in class at the end of some small talk with a girl try to get her number be real casual about it, if they ask why just say so you can call them if you feel like it, blah blah blah basicaly just ask this girl for her number and tell her you'll call her sometime dont call it right away wait atleast 2 days but probably not more then 5 then call it and give her an invite to chill with you at a coffee shop or go out for dinner or something then be cool dont talk to much about yourself leave things mysteriouse, try to just make a few jokes only if you know they will be funny otherwise dont and get her talking about herself, dont complain about anything to her, and never let her know you were bored or ask her if shes having a good time. try to steal a kiss at the end of your first date hell try to make out with her and there you go repeat as necesary!@