Question for the women: About how often do you orgasm WITH your man?

[37andConfused]

just curious. My wife and i were talking and I think has the big O about 2 out of 3 times we have sex. I can never get her to come with just penetration though. It's usually my hand or my thigh or something.

 

Which led me to wonder - how do other men out there take care of their women? Do they take the time to finish off the lady even after they are done (I usually do if I hadn't taken care of her first)

[portableversion]

I never have come through penetration alone. Most women can't. The only way i can have an orgasm is through oral sex.

[Buttaflyy]

Do they take the time to finish off the lady even after they are done (I usually do if I hadn't taken care of her first)

 

(BIG O FOR YOU!) Standing Ovation that is...

[Mz. Pixie]

I never have come through penetration alone. Most women can't. The only way i can have an orgasm is through oral sex.

 

I have done it before but not often. OS is my thing that gets me there.

 

And yes, I almost always have an orgasm.

 

If my husband has one first he always make sure I do too.

[Walk]

Usually I orgasm through oral.. but it's not what I would prefer....

 

I can't come with penetration alone, so I either use a vibrator along with sex, or rub myself while he's going at it.

 

Biggy for me though.. HE lets me dictate the speed, depth, and motion until I come.. Then he takes over. I've found in the past that guys normally need a faster rythm to get off. I need slightly slower than that. So if he's going at it to get himself off, it doens't normally get me off. (even with me manually stimulating myself) Maybe you could do a study on what "speeds" or rythm makes your wife orgasm more often?

 

My bf lets me dicatate the speed and depth til I come, then we speed things up and get freaky so he'll come. hahaha

[Adunaphel]

I have never come with penetration alone either.

(and I'm actually relieved to know that it's quite the norm)

[Jane Doe]

My husband and I haven't had sex in over 2.5 years so my orgasms now are of the self-induced kind. Back when we had sex (if I'm remembering this correctly) I would have an orgasm through penetration. I'm actually very orgasmic.

[Guest]

Girl on top alway's seems to do the trick. They know the best way to get there, so let them do the driving.

 

Oral always does it too.

[37andConfused]

that the woman comes EVERY time? I was looking to see how often women come. not necessarily how they come. but that helps too

[typical]

about how often do you orgasm WITH your man?

 

Now that I think about it.....Never.

[brainless twit]

I guess I'm in the minority here, but I can have an orgasm (at least one) every time with penetration alone. We have to be in a particular position, and it's almost become a joke because it only takes me about 30 seconds. Amazing!

 

However, I hope no one judges their own abilities by my experience, because this is definitely not common! I consider it a gift, because I've only been able to do this for the past 2-3 years. My H is always considerate of my needs; it makes him feel very powerful to be able to get me off every time.

[TheDiva]

that the woman comes EVERY time? I was looking to see how often women come. not necessarily how they come. but that helps too

 

 

Yes almost every time. I am very orgasmic but I am not the norm. Of course, having a talented H helps immensely.

[basscatcher]

about 95-98% of the time.

I've have had the O from oral..

Rarely, have I had it from finger stimulation.

Penetration is the best for me.

I know the positions, I know the rythm.

If he lets me be in control I will always get there..

(Keep the damn fingers away!! Pisses me off when a guy thinks he needs to rub my clit to get me off. )

My breasts are bread dough that needs to be kneeded either.

Keep it simple..