flexible christian Posted September 15, 2006 Posted September 15, 2006 Recently i met some pretty good looking girls this year at my school. they are all down to hangout and down to talk and thats good. But i have a problem. There is this girl i like but i dont seem to catch up on letting her know i am interested in her (most of you might say talk to her but it aint that easy) i talk to her,but i dont seem to be making her be interested in me. Pretty much i think i give her the thought i like her more as a friend then more then a friend and thats not good. I want her to know i am interested in her. I am up for taking advice on this one, anything helps.
johan Posted September 15, 2006 Posted September 15, 2006 ...(most of you might say talk to her but it aint that easy) i talk to her,but i dont seem to be making her be interested in me... Lesson 1: If there is no vibe, then let it go. Just because you are attracted to her physically, you're forcing the issue of a personality match. In the end, the personality match is what it takes. If it isn't there, then find another cute girl who you actually do have vibe with. It's that simple.
Green Posted September 16, 2006 Posted September 16, 2006 You just got to be upfront about things in a casual playfull manor. Like tell her you think shes sexy but she shouldnt let it go to her head. thats step one then of course you have to ask her out on a date you dont have to call it a date but just get her out to dinner or something like that and give her another quick sexual comment like at the begining tell her she looks good and stare an extra second long or something but again the trick is to stay casual and not make to much of a big deal then later on maybe watch a movie at your place or hers or just give her a kiss in the car at the end of the date, I say dont ask for the kiss just go in for it at a pause in the talking then come out of it dont say anything just look at her shortly and let her talk she'll have ither doged your kiss, taken it and not give you a verdict one way or another or she'll tell you exactly how it mader her feel. If you got a kiss you should try to go in for another one by saying something like why those lips I have to have another and then just go in for more of a make out kiss at this point if you've done everything right and the heavens have chosen to shine down upon you I'd say she likes you back and bam your in now some stuff is out of your control but basicily this is what you need to do remember dont talk to much you want to get her talking and stay casual and calm like spending time with her is comfortable and you dont have any agendas to be nervouse about such wheather she like you or not and dont ask her questions such as did she like the kiss or did she have fun hanging out with you......
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