mac007 Posted September 15, 2006 Posted September 15, 2006 Hi, yesterday, my girlfriend end the relationship with me. I am fine with it. It was peaceful (of course we had disagreements). Today, i said that as a friend. I want to show you something. It was a background report on her age. She said that she was 40 when the report said that she is 41. I didn't like her white lies to me. This is one reason why I was also wanting to end it. I told her that I was sorry in giving her the report, but I just wanted to clarify her age again. She said that, "it is a dirty trick what you did." I didn't do this out of being dirty. I need help. I haven't talk to her since this morning. We do work together in the same place. I told her last night that I won't be chasing her nor calling her. She understands this. I hope I didn;t lose a "friendship" because of my stupidity. help please.
Jane Doe Posted September 15, 2006 Posted September 15, 2006 I'm confused. Why did you run a background check on her to begin with?
mac007 Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 it was public info. it started as something innoncent. just to see if i can find her name. i then saw some info there. I didn't take it to heart. but after awhile her lies and white lies began to add up.
Craig Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 ... but after awhile her lies and white lies began to add up. I hope I didn;t lose a "friendship" because of my stupidity. help please. Why would you want to be friends with a person like that (that consistently lies) anyway?
mac007 Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 that is a good point. deep down. i do want to be her friend. kind of like offer a palm branch. she does preach christian values. we also do work in the same place. only time will tell. i haven't spoken to her except for some few work related duties. this began on last thursday, and we talked briefly on friday. no matter what i do want to take the high road, and always do the right thing.
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