Guest.gurl Posted September 14, 2006 Posted September 14, 2006 Just want to check with other people whether this happens to them as well. My man only contact me/ask me out/do nice things whenever I hint to him that I am leaving for good or I am meeting someone new. Otherwise he would not even ask me out. What is really happening? Does he love me? Is he a lazy ass and just waiting for things to take its course? Please help.
Blackfrost Posted September 14, 2006 Posted September 14, 2006 it sounds like he has placed you in the "fair weather girlfriend" category. He doesn't want to ultimately lose you for selfish ego reasons, but he also doesn't respect you enough to care too much about you, unless you threaten him into action. I'd talk to him about whether or not your relationship is heading down a path that you want to pursue. Good Luck
tearful_soul22 Posted September 14, 2006 Posted September 14, 2006 you really need to talk to them in their own language to get your point across. as my ex use to say: you want something speak your mind or forever be ignored, lol..so, i suggest you tell him exactly what you need or require to avoid any potential feud or bickering between you two. take care and my best to you...
Moose Posted September 14, 2006 Posted September 14, 2006 My man only contact me/ask me out/do nice things whenever I hint to him that I am leaving for good or I am meeting someone new. Find another, "man"..... Who wants a girlfirend threatening to leave or meet someone new anyways?
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