Guest Posted September 14, 2006 Posted September 14, 2006 OK, so preface, I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, and this has been my longest relationship ever. (3 weeks was the closest). We have been living together for 4 months. In two months we are moving away from each other because he is off to college and has to abide by his parents rules (which means 17 hours, no work and that leads to no apartment) or they wont pay for it. I have been so scared and worried that he will break up with me when we move. He has told me numerous times that we wont and that he loves me, but Im just not feeling it. Im not sure if this is me blowing it out of proportion or woman's intuition. The first thing that makes me feel uneasy is that I want to have sex, a lot. I think I have a guys sex drive, but he evidently does not. I try new things (like I dressed as a schoolgirl) and try to get him excited but nothing ever works. He just doesnt want to have sex. I have asked him about it, and he tells me its too late at night. Since when is nine too late? The next is that I found out he was chatting with his ex. Now I dont care that he is talking to her, seriously. I am just confused. He told me that in their relationship she used him just for his money and just to live in the US. Then she cheated on him and married some guy before she ever broke up with him. So I was wondering, does everyone talk to people that treat them like crap? And why was he curious as to when she was going to be back in the US? Last, he just doesnt do anything with me anymore. We used to go out and do stuff (movies, dinner ect.) but now we just sleep together (literally sleep). He says he doesnt like TV because it bores him and that we dont have any money to go out. So I tried to buy games to play at home. Evidently he hates cards and board games too. He never invites me to go places and never wants to go with me either. Now before you make a decision with your advice, he is a very very caring person. If I have a serious thing to deal with he is right there. He always wants to know what Im upset if I am, and is my complete problem solver if I need him. He hates for me to cry and will help me with anything if I ask. So now I ask you guys and gals, are we going to break up? Please, any advice on the matter will help me tons. Thanks!
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