mixwell Posted September 13, 2006 Posted September 13, 2006 Okay long story short.. Was with my ex g/f for 7 years (since age 14-21), first love first sexual everything with.. I am 23 now.. Okay so 2 years ago i move out of state and ex g/f breaks up with me. i move back in the states 2 months later and shes going out with someone else. I finally tell her that I can't talk to her anymore after going through the calling her all the time and doing all the wrong things.. Well fast foward 2 years and lately I have been having dreams about her. About 4 times a month for the last 2 months I would say. Today I have a dream about her. The dream went like this: (My Dream) I was somewhere with a friend talking to someone and I saw my Ex come out of some building. For some reason after we are all in some house hanging out and she says "come over here I need to talk to you" She tells me that she had been having dreams about me just as I had had dreams about her and that she wants to get back together.. We end up kissing blah blah and then I wake up. (end Dream) Has anyone had a similar situation ? I mean I know that most likely in no case will we get back together since I haven't talked to her in about 1 1/2 years but sometimes I do think about contacting her but tell myself why ? Nothing is going to change but now that I am over the emotional part I am curious as to how she is doing and what she's up to.. The only reason I don't is because of the awkwardness of not having talked to her for as long as I have.. Also its not like if i did contact her we would get back together. I basically am scared that IF I did get in contact then my emotions would get back into the situation and I do not want to go back to that. . Any ideas/ input is appreciated.. Thanks >.<
Divine Posted September 13, 2006 Posted September 13, 2006 when you truly loved someone, they will always be apart of you, when something good or bad is happening you find that they just pop up. This is totally natural whether it is in dreams, or just driving, or taking a jog, anything. Its totally natural.
loveinlife Posted September 13, 2006 Posted September 13, 2006 I had dreams like that. I have broken up with my ex gf for a year. First time I dreamed that she went out with someone. Second dream was that she came back to me after lots of pursuing. Third dream was that we still loved each other after being apart for over twenty years. I guess when you love someone in the subconcious and concious level, they will always come out somewhere. Perhaps in our dreams. Like your qoute Divine...kinda sad if I will never find someone who I'll love so much again. :lmao:
Author mixwell Posted September 14, 2006 Author Posted September 14, 2006 I know she has a myspace.. she hasn't logged on in a while.. Should I drop her a shorrt message? I also remember her # IF it is the same but that would be a bit much.. or should i just go on with life as I have been.. It has been 1 1/2 years already so I don't know... ::sigh::
Apathetic Posted September 14, 2006 Posted September 14, 2006 Im still having dreams about two of my ex's.One EX was from 6 yrs ago & I have had 3 dreams of him in a week.The other I have had 2 dreams of him & he is my most recent EX. In one dream my recent EX died:eek:
Divine Posted September 14, 2006 Posted September 14, 2006 to: loveinlife Hey, dont be sad, i had someone and loved them without measure but unfortunatley they did not love me back. So there is hope that one day i will find someone that will love me as much as i love them ans same for you, just learn from this experience and be careful next time around until then...
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