Guest Posted September 12, 2006 Posted September 12, 2006 Alright, I could be wrong, but most of my senses are telling me that she found a cooler guy before we could go out on our first date. This whole escapade started when I came to one of my classes and a girl that was incredibly friendly struck me as amazing, so later after class I asked her if she would like to go out to lunch or dinner sometime. She said yes, and then gave me her phone number. For the next week we tried to make arrangements and all the while she seemed very interested in making some sort of arrangement. Evenually I asked her if she was available for dinner one night and she told me that she already has a boyfriend. So I guess what I am askinig is why she would wait to tell me this after we went through all of the trouble to try and get date going. Why wait till now. Thats why I think she found him before we could go out on our date. So I guess what I am asking is what I can do at this point. Is there any hope now that she has a boyfriend, and are there any ways of knowing whether she has known him a long time or just met? I am really confused about what to do. Oh yea, she pull out the friend card, so I am still friends, but what all does that entail, and how do I make sure that she knows I don't want to be just a friend? Man this sucks! Please give me some advice if you have any on this type of thing.
gfto Posted September 13, 2006 Posted September 13, 2006 So I guess what I am asking is what I can do at this point. Flush her phone number and forget about it. She isn't interested in you. It doesn't matter when she met this boyfriend, or if she even has a boyfriend. This happened to me several times in college. She probably wasn't interested to begin with, but when you asked her out, she just wanted to let you down easy. When you persisted, she decided to play the "I have a boyfriend" card. She probably doesn't. But, it doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is that she isn't into you.
Guest.girl Posted September 13, 2006 Posted September 13, 2006 '' a girl that was incredibly friendly struck me as amazing'' She's friendly to everyone, you even said it yourself, she's not into you. A common mistake that men make with friendly girls. You should hate her for tricking you into this instead
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