Guest.girl Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 Needs male inputs, but females welcome as well. If a guy find a girl good looking (look, body) on the first few dates, does it mean the girl really does 'pass' the physical attraction test? I mean, do guys ever change their minds about a girl's look after a few dates? Considering she dresses and wears the same make up. (welcome all short or long opinions) Link to post Share on other sites
Pink Amulet Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 'pass' the physical attraction test? Are the results of this test state recorded? Honestly. It depends if you have a sh*t personality or not... Physical beauty can only take you so far before your personality has to follow through. You can be completely beautiful, but if you are as dull as dog sh*t, people won't look at you with the same admiration of beauty that they did the first few times they met you. Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 Needs male inputs, but females welcome as well. If a guy find a girl good looking (look, body) on the first few dates, does it mean the girl really does 'pass' the physical attraction test? I mean, do guys ever change their minds about a girl's look after a few dates? Considering she dresses and wears the same make up. (welcome all short or long opinions) In my experience, if you are on a date with the guy, you have already passed the test. Well, I guess there also is the "let's see what she is like without her makeup/ without high heels/in a bathing suit" test. Link to post Share on other sites
DeeBrod83 Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 IMO looks get you in the door, personality keeps you there. I think you're attractiveness is very dependent on your personality and can make or break that. Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 sorry, I didn't pay attention to the fact that you said the girl is dressing the same way and wearing makeup. Like the other posters said, I guess it's no longer a matter of looks. Not that this means that there is anything wrong with the girls's personality. The boy might have decided she's not her kind of person. Or he might be dating someone else Link to post Share on other sites
Sand&Water Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 Guest.girl, I do believe a guy can change his mind about a girl's physical attractiveness at anytime. It can decline, or incline. You should be careful. Never assume that interest [in terms of attractiveness] will override other areas of the relationship [dating or serious]. Link to post Share on other sites
Shyguy86 Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 If you're out with him than chances are you passed the first test. Although he may think you're attractive physically. It doesn't mean that he will be attracted to you. If you're boring as hell and can't spell racecar bakwards than chances are he'll lose interest pretty quick. Link to post Share on other sites
stoopid_guy Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 IMO looks get you in the door, personality keeps you there. I think you're attractiveness is very dependent on your personality and can make or break that. Agreed. I've met ladies who got cuter as you got to know them, and others who got less cute. A guys perception of you will change, depending on his desire. Looks may only be a small part of that. Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 If you're out with him than chances are you passed the first test. Although he may think you're attractive physically. It doesn't mean that he will be attracted to you. If you're boring as hell and can't spell racecar bakwards than chances are he'll lose interest pretty quick. ... Looks are only one thing. There are plenty of other things that mean much more and if they aren't up to scratch then all the 'good looks' in the world will be for nought. Good looks alone are certainly not a guarantee for a relationship - gotta bring much more to the table than that. Link to post Share on other sites
DarkShadows Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 Ok here's reality... Really 'hot' people, men or women, usually don't have a good personality. You hardly ever see 'hot' people with boyfriends/girlfriends. Reason being hot chicks tend to be stuck up bitches or whores and hot men tend to be stuck up a-hole jocks or gay... This is from what I have seen... From what I have been told most guys like a good looking girl but they want their girl to be the sweetest girl to them, to be nice, caring, lovely, not a whore.. just a CLASSY LADY. Guys don't approach girls they aren't attracted too, unless they're drunk. Personally, looks aren't everything. Yes I have to be sexually attracted to the man, but I find manners, politeness, sweetness and a gentleman more of an attraction than "Oh he has a six pack." Too superficial... Link to post Share on other sites
stoopid_guy Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 Ok here's reality... Really 'hot' people, men or women, usually don't have a good personality. You hardly ever see 'hot' people with boyfriends/girlfriends. Reason being hot chicks tend to be stuck up bitches or whores and hot men tend to be stuck up a-hole jocks or gay...Agreed, that's a lot of why you usually see "hot" people together. Give me sweet and fun. Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 Agreed, that's a lot of why you usually see "hot" people together. Give me sweet and fun. Agree also and it blows the oft-repeated 'theory' that all guys want 'hot' chix. Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 Needs male inputs, but females welcome as well. If a guy find a girl good looking (look, body) on the first few dates, does it mean the girl really does 'pass' the physical attraction test? I mean, do guys ever change their minds about a girl's look after a few dates? Considering she dresses and wears the same make up. (welcome all short or long opinions) Yes. Guys change their minds after a few dates. There could be many reasons but he probably has decided he isn't that into you. Link to post Share on other sites
Values Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 Needs male inputs, but females welcome as well. If a guy find a girl good looking (look, body) on the first few dates, does it mean the girl really does 'pass' the physical attraction test? I mean, do guys ever change their minds about a girl's look after a few dates? Considering she dresses and wears the same make up. (welcome all short or long opinions) In regards to make up, me and every guy I know hates that face paint. It's totally unecessary. I bet less than 10% of guys give a crap about a girl wearing makeup. It's ugly. A girl who looks good looks good. Simple as that. Make up will only distort or ruin already good looks and it cannot improve a girl who is not good looking. Make up is a farce sold to women by make up companies. Sure some ultra professional gay guy backstage at a NY fashion show can put some smoothing foundation over Molly Sims' zits, but all the different shades of blush, eye shadow, is terrible. Leave it alone. Just look like you take care of yourself with healthy well maintained skin, healthy hair and leave the warpaint at home. This message in no way implies that any posters on this thread wear heavy make up, I know you may use it conservatively. It's just a tip to you chicks that MOST guys don't like the stuff. Just listen to David Cross (movies, stand-up) talk about the women in Hollywood and what they look like. Link to post Share on other sites
Values Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 Yamaha, you have a Wilmer Valderama thing going in that photo if that's you. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts