Tshepi22 Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 My boyfriend i have been seeing each other for five years.... In this 5years, it has been lies and hurt... He has lied to me so many times, im a 22 years old, when i met him he was already working in Europe, but we kept caling each other, until 3years ago. I heard trough his friend's girlfriend that he has a child(Girl) she is leaving in europe as well... Wha shocked me was that the mother of a child is also there, when i asked him he told me that they are no longer 2gether, they are staying in 2 separate houses. What i dont understand is that he does not want me to visit him, he has stored me on his mobile as A.Tokyo, his family does know me, but he wants to be known @ my place...He has neva bought me a gift on my birthday.... Since last year after his visits, he has started being serious, like calling me everyday telling me that he loves me and all that. So during his visits this year the mother of a child started call him everyday when i was with him and he would tell that he will call later he is still driving or busy, he would not tell this woman that im still with my girlfriend i will call you later. When i asked him he said he did not think that it was a big deal, i also found a used condom in his room during his visits (when i questioned?) he lied saying it belonged to one of his family members... Last month he proposed marriage, he then said he was coming over in October to sort Lobola things out, a week later he changed! he said he was coming in december to give me an engagement, then he will sort everything later next year. He claims that he loves me and that he will never let me go.... But the truth is i dont trust him anymore... Three years ago he bought a big house and he did not bother to tell me, i had to find out by mistake through his friends. Ok i spend a few nights @ this house,Guess what i found some womans clothes in the wadrobe and some facial and hair things in the bathroom, when i questioned again, he said they belonged to his sister..... I dont love him as before because of the lies... But now he calls me every hour everyday to check up on me, he claims to love me and there will be no life for him without me. Please help. Im comfused by this... Regards Angela...
Recommended Posts