nik Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 hey ladies, i need some advice. i love my girlfriend the same as i did when i first met her. i kiss her and show her as much affection as i did from day 1. however i find that i seem to be the one kissing her all the time, and being intimate. if i dont inititate it, it will never start. i have tried holding out for a few days and she doesnt seem to try and be that way. i know she loves me a lot and wants me "around" all the time. but not necessarily in an intimate way. give me some advice what to do here, i want my girl to come on to me. god only knows how many times ive brought this up to her, and she always tells me she finds me really attractive and she wants me and all. and only after that does she become affectionate with me on her own good will but that fades after 1 or 2 times. after that i am always the one trying to turn her on. ladies, can you help me out, have you been in similar situations? what does she want?
Guest Posted September 14, 2006 Posted September 14, 2006 well you never mentioned if things were ever any different with you two. Was she always like this? Or is this more of a new development? Overall I woould say it is not a good sign, I won't speculate on the why's too much. You said you treat her well, cherish her and all that and this is happening? Either a) you are doing something you are not aware of that is turning her off, are you giving her any cause to be insecure? Have you made some new female friends or going out with the guys a lot? Sometimes this is how women show their dissatisfaction. Or b) she is moving away from you and the way women show that is by limiting physical contact because that most women equate sex with love. If it is b only you can decide to not tolerate that, a relationship without the physical side is not a relationship at all, you deserve to be wanted! Do not settle for less!! If it is choice a you need to talk to her, find out if anything is wrong. If she says no and keeps this up I would suggest you spare yourself heartbreak because I don't see a good ending here. People should take it very seriously when the sex frequency changes so drastically you get insecure about it.....
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