Green Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 I've gone on a couple dates with this girl I've just met. We've gone out togather three times each time more heated then the next we even slept togather. Last time she was over she accidentely left something valuable at my place. When I tried to call her this weekend I couldn't get in touch with her. I called her once thursday left a message asking for her to call me back. I called again Saturday and left a message saying I wondered what was going on with her this weekend. So its been four days now and I have some jewlery of hers and no calls back from her. I feel like this means something bad, like she's blowing me off, but it would be easy for her just to call me back and say she'd be busy all weekend, I just dont know what to think its really weird. So please people tell me what I should be thinking because this really sux
Yoohoo Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 She's probably feeling the classic "morning after buyer's remorse" feeling for sleeping with you...happens pretty often. If she wants her jewelry or whatever, she'll call you. Don't keep calling her back, especially after you left a message...it will just make you look clingy and like you just wanted her for sex.... She knows you have it, she'll let you know when she's ready to get it back, and/or talk to you. Take it easy and wait...its all you can do.
Author Green Posted September 11, 2006 Author Posted September 11, 2006 She's probably feeling the classic "morning after buyer's remorse" feeling for sleeping with you...happens pretty often. If she wants her jewelry or whatever, she'll call you. Don't keep calling her back, especially after you left a message...it will just make you look clingy and like you just wanted her for sex.... She knows you have it, she'll let you know when she's ready to get it back, and/or talk to you. Take it easy and wait...its all you can do. She was still at my place in the morning and we did it again, and then she called me a day later to do something but I was busy, she even said I dont call her enough what ever thats supposed to mean. Now its been about a week since I've heard from her. I've left two messages very short just saying it was me and asking her to call me back. You've got good advise as far as not calling her and I havent for two days now and I dont plan on calling all week. Thank you for the advise this still really sux though
Draken Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 Maybe she just doesn't like you and wants to pertend nothing ever happened. She must figure that if she ignores you long enough you'll just go away and a lost piece of Jewlery might be well worth it to her.
gemmab2020 Posted September 12, 2006 Posted September 12, 2006 Hya KMT, I don't understand women either so it seems!!! Maybe she felt that you were blowing her off when she called you "after sex" and tried making plans. Maybe she felt a bit used then...?? Who knows... Mystery! If you want to call me to make me feel better, I will answer your calls!
bella_girl Posted September 12, 2006 Posted September 12, 2006 bummer dude... but just in case.. a good friend of mine recently lost his phone and with it the number of the girl he was speaking to/hoping to get a date with (they live a couple hours apart). He managed to get the phone back after a week but had the number wrong for a couple days. They'd both left messages for each other and when they did get in touch she said 'I thought you'd decided to stop speaking to me.' (Which he hadn't). So there could be a reason as it sounds like things were going quite well, especially if she called you after she left your place. maybe try one more time for good measure in a couple days and then leave it at that.
Author Green Posted September 12, 2006 Author Posted September 12, 2006 Hya KMT, I don't understand women either so it seems!!! Maybe she felt that you were blowing her off when she called you "after sex" and tried making plans. Maybe she felt a bit used then...?? Who knows... Mystery! If you want to call me to make me feel better, I will answer your calls! Your sweet and we are going through the same no call thing, and it sux how parnoid its made me of the different posibilities of why. We just need to find people with proper phone etiquete and we'll be set! I really hope she didn't feel used for sex, but heck at this point I almost feel used for it.
Author Green Posted September 12, 2006 Author Posted September 12, 2006 bummer dude... but just in case.. a good friend of mine recently lost his phone and with it the number of the girl he was speaking to/hoping to get a date with (they live a couple hours apart). He managed to get the phone back after a week but had the number wrong for a couple days. They'd both left messages for each other and when they did get in touch she said 'I thought you'd decided to stop speaking to me.' (Which he hadn't). So there could be a reason as it sounds like things were going quite well, especially if she called you after she left your place. maybe try one more time for good measure in a couple days and then leave it at that. Yeah I may try one more time this weekend, that would be great if it were something as silly as phone problems, almost too good to be possible
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