Joelle Posted September 10, 2006 Posted September 10, 2006 As a married OW involved with a MM, do you have similar expectations on your MM as a single OW may? Do you put pressure on your MM to spend more time with you, leave his W for you, etc? Or are you satisfied with the A, having your MM on the side? Just curious. It seems that the majority of the OW's here are single, and (understandably) struggling with wanting more from their MM's. I was wondering if MARRIED OW are in similar situations.
Guest Posted September 10, 2006 Posted September 10, 2006 You enjoy the time that you have together with this person. We are in no position to demand more time than can be given. I think it goes both ways.
Author Joelle Posted September 10, 2006 Author Posted September 10, 2006 You enjoy the time that you have together with this person. We are in no position to demand more time than can be given. I think it goes both ways. Thanks for your feedback. I thought this was the case for some A's where both people are married.
stillhere Posted September 10, 2006 Posted September 10, 2006 When i was married, i wanted as much time with my MM as possible, but it was difficult. Especially when i had a very controlling and psychotic man watching every move i made. (That was the case even before my A started) Now that i'm single, i want him all to myself. It is easier for me to see him more and not have to sneak around, so of course i want to spend more time with him. He does what he can to make me happy, and he has spent more time with me than in the past. When both A partners are married, it's just that timing is difficult because 2 schedules now have to match instead of just one.
Author Joelle Posted September 11, 2006 Author Posted September 11, 2006 Thanks for your reply, Stillhere. Your feedback is interesting.
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