wowza Posted September 10, 2006 Posted September 10, 2006 My boyfriend of nine months dumped me after a day filled with physical affection. We kissed, hugged, and laughed. I was sitting on his lap, he was hugging me, when he suddenly paused and said, "Honey, I think we should break up." This was said as casually as one might say, "Honey, I think we should go to applebees for dinner." The only change in our relationship was that I did not see him very often the last two weeks. This made sense to me because he was moving apartments and had to go to ny (from boston) on the weekends because his father was recently diagnosed with cancer. He denies both the move or his father's condition having any effect on his decision. When I questioned him further, he said "I think I want to be single." Explaining that whenever he is a long term relationship he begins to question things at a point. He said he was not sure he felt whole heartedly about "us". When I asked how he could treat me like his girlfriend all day long knowing full and well that he would be dumping me by supper time, his response was "there is nothing wrong in our relationship, I do not feel 100 percent one way or the other." I realize he has the right to end our relationship. That is a painful truth, but a truth nonetheless. What I do not understand is how you could hold someone while speaking the words "Honey, I think we should break up." How you can kiss them and grope them up until the final seconds of your relationship. He says there is nobody else, I believe him. Why would someone do that to a person they allegedly cared for at some point? Being in an embrace is one of the most comforting things in the world to me, to have him ruin that is not fair. Perhaps he has a personality disorder.
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