Vanquish Posted September 10, 2006 Posted September 10, 2006 Ok so i'm sorry if this question has been brought up before but upon searching i didn't really find anything. Anyway im curious to see what you guys think or is the power behind the words "i love you" when you say it to someone in a relationship or otherwise. Because i know most if not all of the people i know don't just say these words for no good reason. And sure love can change but if there is any doubts i can't say those words. Its only when you feel your in that state of a relationship that you can. So lets hear it, what does your "i love you" mean? For me it means that i've been through a ton with you and im finally feeling like i can trust my heart and have strong emotional communication with you, because of these experiences. I could never tell someone i love them just because i think its what they want to hear. I tell them i love them because i feel theres a connection that might be deeper then an argument or small fight. Dunno if its possible to ask how long your feelings of love last too depending on how the relationship ends or metamorphasizes into. But when i tell someone i love them and mean it it usually lasts a month or so with NC or any other forms just by the reminders of the past ect.
Sally00 Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 Well when my bf and I say "I love you," it means we care for each other and know that nothing can get between us and that we will go through anything together.
quankanne Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 with my husband, it means "I'm so glad that your mine and I'm yours, and that we're on this roller coaster together."
superconductor Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 One of the worst pains I ever felt was when I told someone that I loved her, and she looked back at me and said, "Oh. Well. That's nice."
DarkShadows Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 One of the worst pains I ever felt was when I told someone that I loved her, and she looked back at me and said, "Oh. Well. That's nice." Ouch. Sorry to hear that.
DarkShadows Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 My boyfriend use to tell his ex he loved her. They were in a 5 yr relationship together. A year and a half into our relationship he told me he was never in love with her and he had just came to this realization and that I truely am his first love. His reasoning was... Because I could never see myself having kids with her, but I can always see you and me having children together...
Guest.girl Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 when a guy (okay, not all) says the magic three words of I LOVE YOU, it means 'I want to sleep with you now'
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