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the only way i know how to aska girl out is to say "will you go out with me" as u can see that preety lame or so i think. is there any good way to ask her ???

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the only way i know how to aska girl out is to say "will you go out with me" as u can see that preety lame or so i think. is there any good way to ask her ???

 

I don't think there is anything lame in asking it that way.

I actually doubt you could find a better way. :)

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How old are the two of you? If you're early teens, "lame" is to be expected. :p

 

How well do you know her? Common interest? Be more specific than "will you go out with me?" If you know she likes animals, ask her if she'd like to go to the zoo (if there's one close by.) If you know she likes Mexican food, tell her you're craving a burrito and ask if she's interested in one too.

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If you know she likes Mexican food, tell her you're craving a burrito and ask if she's interested in one too.

yeah, ask her to go to Taco Bell with you for a Burritoe Supreme or the new Grilled Stuffed Burritoes are pretty good as well :)

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What about "Can I call you sometime?" and then take it from there.

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Don't "ask" her out. Simply smile and say, "Let's meet for a cup of coffee Sunday afternoon," then zip it and watch/listen to her reaction. This will tell you if she's interested. If she smiles and says "sure," without hesitation, then you might have something. If she looks like she just saw a ghost and gives you something vague like, "well, you can call me sometime," then forget it and move on.

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I'm going through the same thing. Don't know how to get it out to someone I don't know very well. I also always worry that if she's not into me, I'll forever be labled some kind of wierdo who liked her.

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I'm going through the same thing. Don't know how to get it out to someone I don't know very well. I also always worry that if she's not into me, I'll forever be labled some kind of wierdo who liked her.

 

Lol yea same thing here. But even worse if things dont go right for me, then i will have to deal with her and her 2 friends in class for the rest of the semester :(

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haha some weirdo huh?

girls don't get all freaked out. if they don't like you, they might get a little embarassed because it might be hard to tell someone you don't like them like that.. but they shouldn't think you're weird or lame or stupid or anything like that! its a compliment if you like herr...

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haha some weirdo huh?

girls don't get all freaked out. if they don't like you, they might get a little embarassed because it might be hard to tell someone you don't like them like that.. but they shouldn't think you're weird or lame or stupid or anything like that! its a compliment if you like herr...

Right. You're paying her a compliment. If she thinks you're "lame" for that, you're better off without her anyway!

 

Now, she might think you're shy, which a lot of ladies might find cute. Not a bad thing at all.;)

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well to fill in the blanks about the basics im 16 and a jr. in highschool she is also a jr. in highschool but, she came from a diff school b4 commming to my school so shes kinda new and stuff, when i see her in the halls we can chit chat about w/e till we reach w/e where going but sometimes shes talking to her friends and stuff so i cant go right up to her or i would look like a duface in front of all these little chearleaders that can spread any kinda news like wildfire. so even if she said no i would be screwed if i tryed to talk to another cheerleader or just a cute girl.

and also i really shy around this girl so i cant really think of anything to say even if i knew what i was gonna say b4 i got to talking to her.

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