fireflywy Posted September 10, 2006 Posted September 10, 2006 Did the planets align or something? For most of my life.. I haven't had much luck with women. In the last three months since I broke up with the ex it seems like I've got some very interested people. It's never been like this. The sad thing is, is that the ex was (as I said before) the absolutely most beautiful woman I've seen in the flesh. To be honest, dating someone like that, is almost like having dated Helen of Troy. For as bad as that relationship was... I wonder if that added some strange type of confidence that I'm not even aware of which is manifesting itself in different ways? Or maybe it's because I got hit so hard by her relationship Mack Truck and picked myself up, worked on myself, and really strove to learn and do new things since which is making the difference? I have no idea but I'm trying to stay humble because I don't want to fall prey to hubris and have this little wave I'm riding smacked down by the gods because I'm still pretty raw right now. I also don't feel like I deserve all the attention I'm getting lately. What the heck do they see in me that the ex didn't? Weird thoughts on my saturday night. sheesh...
Values Posted September 10, 2006 Posted September 10, 2006 Sounds like a good problem to have. It beats the state of mind that myself and many on this site have. My ex was/is the most beautiful girl I'd ever seen. Naked she was my true dream girl. I have problem wondering if I'll ever be that turned on again. I've only been on two dates in the 7 months since her revealing her evil self and breaking up with me. If I was getting the kind of attention you are, I would probably be a lot better off right now.
superconductor Posted September 10, 2006 Posted September 10, 2006 Enjoy the ride, my friend. Not everyone has such good fortune.
Teacher's Pet Posted September 10, 2006 Posted September 10, 2006 Enjoy it, man. I'm in the same boat. I thought it was all over for me. But then I decided to BE THE MAN, and stop feeling sorry for myself. It's not always easy, and sometimes I slip up and get sad...but I'm doing better! In the last 4 days, I've peed behind bushes WITH 4 really cool chicks, and less than 12 hours ago, I was a judgement call away from sleeping with a REALLY hot girl from my bar....but common sense, alcohol, and morals kept it in my pants...... I swear to God..if I knew being social was this fun, I would have never dated my ex! LOL (Well, except for the wild sex) You da man, dawg!! -tp
Mollyanna Posted September 10, 2006 Posted September 10, 2006 hey fireflywy - I told you, you are hot! You just didn't believe me, did ya? Way to go, playa'!
Rooster_DAR Posted September 10, 2006 Posted September 10, 2006 Seems that when people find out you broke up with your ex, they come crawling out of the woodwork. I'm in the same boat as you, and trying to enjoy the ride.
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