mlchris2 Posted September 9, 2006 Posted September 9, 2006 its been a year and were fighting off and on. What is boils down to is she wants to stay married, but is really scared about taking me back. She thinks its all talk on my part. Ive been threatened with D for a year. She actually went and have them drawnup, this last time. so I've been given another chance... I cant screw this up. Ive got to go into total NC mode. for now thats what she wants. when i start NC, it seems to always go downhil. what things did you guys and gals do to keep on track when/if you decided on NC?
LakesideDream Posted September 10, 2006 Posted September 10, 2006 In my experiance, "No Contact" when a relationship has become so troubled as to make it an option is a way for the partner who wants out to say "see you later alligator". No contact is what happens when someone takes out a restraining order, not what happens when two people are trying to save a marriage. Time to butch up son.
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