I really don't understand this explain to me girls?

[MichaelIsTaken90]

Ok ever since me and my gf broke up cuz there has been family problems something fishy happened yesterday. My gf told me she saw this deaf kid on myspace and saw his sn on there so she went and added his sn to talk to him. She claims that she was just trying to make friends because she doesn't have alot of friends in life. The boy was asking her stuff and she was answering it. I got really pissed today because yesterday when she told me these things, she never told me these things happened until today and she finally told me everything. The boy asked her if she wanted to do something, and then she claims that she was disgusted and now she is going to block him later or w/e. I am so pissed. This is not something she would normally do if me and her were going out, thats whats fishy. To me it doesn't look like she was just wanting to talk to him just for "friends". She also claims she wanted to see how he was since he was deaf. Like how did he talk or w/e because she doesn't usually see people like that. But yeah anyways I am pissed. I told her this was wrong. I don't care if were broken up or not because she told me were still bf and gf but its not offcial yet. She said everything will continue be the same. Well guess what this isn't being the same. She is doing these things to me and it really hurts. And I don't plan to get revenge or w/e because I believe that your just as wrong as the person to do it back to them. And I wouldn't gain nothing from that. What should I do? Has anyone else been in a situation like this?

[Enema]

Holy crap man... learn to use a little bit of punctuation, a new paragraph, some commas, perhaps reading through what you wrote before you hit submit would be great.

 

Onto your problem: It seems that you're upset because your EX-girlfriend is talking with another guy that got a little bit risque with her.

 

It's none of your business. She broke up with you, you are no longer her boyfriend and her relationships are no longer your problem or your business.

 

^^ Read that through again. NOT your business, forget it.

[MichaelIsTaken90]

come on can someone please help me and tell me their experiences???

 

oh yeah by the way my gf also claimed she felt bad even though she says she didn't do nothing wrong.

[MichaelIsTaken90]

Holy crap man... learn to use a little bit of punctuation, a new paragraph, some commas, perhaps reading through what you wrote before you hit submit would be great.

 

Onto your problem: It seems that you're upset because your EX-girlfriend is talking with another guy that got a little bit risque with her.

 

It's none of your business. She broke up with you, you are no longer her boyfriend and her relationships are no longer your problem or your business.

 

^^ Read that through again. NOT your business, forget it.

 

 

I said in the post I made that we are still going out she is not my ex gf. Its just not official yet. So it is my business. Obviously she told me what happened because it is my business. The problem here is just I don't know how to handle it or what to do about it. :(

[Island Girl]

Whether or not the break up is official or not, she did disrespect you and your relationship. And the whole thing about wanting friends -- yeah that -- was a out and out lie. That is not the reason for what happened.

 

She is feeling like she wants something or someone else. Definitely she is moving away from you and the constraints of a relationship.

 

If there is still a chance for your relationship, you are going to have to sidestep your emotions, hide the sadness and fear, and tell her you want to make the breakup official.

 

Then apply no contact til she comes back all the way to at least dating you again. -- I'd say keep her at a distance until she is back to being your girlfriend.