Have you ever wondered?

[Tormented]

You know, I have spent the morning reading different threads/posts on this board and found myself wondering...."why in the hell do people even bother with relationships when our hearts are at the risk of being shattered?"

 

Maybe it's just the frame of mind I'm in right now (going through a bout of depression), or the fact that my heart is still broken, but reading the painful words of so many heart-broken people here makes me wonder why we all don't just slam the door to "love,"....permanently!

 

But then, I guess the argument here could be that there is no greater feeling in the world than to truly love and BE truly loved by a mate who will always love us for who we are and will never abuse the love we have for them.

 

Sounds great...but I sure get sick and tired of kissing all these toads in search of that "prince."

 

*Sigh....*

 

~Tormented~

[Brittanyjean06]

I've wondered that plenty of times. But can the hart resisit loves temptation? No it pulls you in and drags you in and even if it breaks your heart your still yearning for more. After a broken heart some stay bitter and cold towards the opposite sex, than find love again and its a never ending story. I'm afraid of getting my heart broken again but that doesn't meen I don't want to fall in love again, I'll risk it.

 

Sometimes when I'm giving advice im just so sick and tired of thinking and so sick and tired of everyone posting about problems including my own problems that I want to tell everyone F it all, whats the point? Those who have broken hearts will only heal in time. Ow will only be hurt in time or if already. Those who hav weird problems, will either seek or not seek a therapist. In the end what does it all matter? who knows but ya know what its not healthy to think like that because you really can get low and depressed. Keep your head up and I'm sure alot of people here have wondered that

[bcgirl]

I've concluded that I will only attract complete *ssholes until I become a homosexual or live a life of celibacy... Ironically I have a gay sister who is as miserable as I am, so half my theory is already shot:(

[Rooster_DAR]

I have entertained that thought as well. The pain is so great, why bother chance putting yourself through it again and be miserable. I want to be optimic, but sometimes it's hard to be.

 

My heart is still in great pain, but I know it will eventually pass and all that will be left is moments of a sad melancholy that passes from time to time.

[Rooster_DAR]

BTW

 

I've concluded that I will only attract complete *ssholes until I become a homosexual or live a life of celibacy... Ironically I have a gay sister who is as miserable as I am, so half my theory is already shot

 

That last posts was kinda funny.

[Jaded-Arie]

Every bit. To love and be loved, there is no greater feeling. To lose that relationship hurts like a mothereffer! But I still say, with my ex (My first love) I have no regrets. I would do it all over again knowing that I would be hurting like I sometimes am at the end. I would do it all over again, and again, and again.

 

Don't give up on love guys. Even when it ends, at one time you had a good thing.

[Guest]

I would not do it over again, I would much rather of had the friendship we had before having a relationship. If I would have known then that after sharing my love with him in the end I would never see him again. I never would have agreed to the relationship.

[Rooster_DAR]

I'm torn with agreeing with the last two posts. I know the first one sound more logical, but I certainly understand regretting it as well. I guess it's just all part of courting a relationship, you live the good times, you live the bad times.