bcgirl Posted September 9, 2006 Posted September 9, 2006 Met construction guy seven months ago and jumped head first into crazy relationship! It should have been a sign, he hid my car keys the first night we went out - I ended up staying the night. I got an "I love you" before I went home. Basically lived together since then. As of now Ithink we have spent a total of about 10 nights apart... Here is the very breif rundown: month1 - He was in a ber fight and I had to bail him out of jail (he re-payed me) month2 - I was pregnent with a tubal pregnency because of lack of protection, had emergency surgery, 3 scars. Month3 - We got in an agruement on the phone, I caved in and drove to his house that night, and he was otherwise occupied by his ex bouncing up and down on him as I walked in the room. month4 - never really recovered from the cheating, lots of fighting, the put downs, lack of financial involvement, and screaming began, month5,6 - all of the above plus he put his fist through my car window, month7 - He has verbally attacked every aspect of my character and everyone I know, threatened to slap me, broke my light switch (by hitting it), now - we broke up for the 100th time yesterday, I went out after work, he came to my house while I was out and got some of his things. I know this was intentional since he actually had move his other items to reach what he took... I am sitting at home on a beautiful Saturday almost wishing he would call, everyone I know thinks he is a lunatic, and I am nuts for being around this long - its this crazy phychotic attraction - HELP!!!!
Heart66 Posted September 13, 2006 Posted September 13, 2006 Okay...I see that you have 47 views, yet NOBODY has replied. I venture to guess that nobody has wanted to waste their time to tell you what is so crazily obvious! So I will be the ONE to say it: WHAT THE HELL ARE U THINKING!!!???!!! Girl, put on your Nikes and RUN! Run--as far and as fast as u can! You haven't said ANYTHING positive about this guy, so why are you even questioning what you should do!??! Lets recap: He has been violent & controlling. He's gone to jail. He's abusive. And, he's cheated. WHAT MORE IS THERE TO DISCUSS!???! Change your phone number--and locks if neccesary. Box up what items he left behind and tell him he has 2 choices--Come and get it off of the lawn, or they will be at the curb on garbage pick up day! [bE SMART--don't let him in the house, and make sure a friend etc is with you when he comes to get his stuff, as seeing he has a history of violence!] Then, be done with him and let him ruin someone elses life! STOP ALLOWING HIM TO HURT YOU! I wish you luck, but the answer to your question is right in front of you! You don't need this website--you need to find your self esteem and move on from this looser. Be strong! Good luck
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