Guest Posted September 9, 2006 Posted September 9, 2006 Well im a kind of guy that talks to people that i know easily. I can keep a steady conversation going between me and friends, whether they are male or female. I have a problem when i first meet a girl though...i mean if its an ugly girl its easy to talk to them. But i dont know what to say to HOT girls. Hot girls come up to me and say "hey" and stuff like i like your shoes or i love your hair or other crap like that. All i can usually say is "oh, thanks"...and thats it. I mean i dont even have anything to say!!! A really hot girl is trying to talk to me and i am silent! What can i do??
Yoohoo Posted September 9, 2006 Posted September 9, 2006 Practice! That's how you get better...imagine they are an ugly girl, and respond accordingly... Of course, Keep eye contact, don't mumble, etc...but just because they are hot doesn't mean they deserve ANY special or out of the ordinary treatment compared to any other person.
Guest.Girl Posted September 9, 2006 Posted September 9, 2006 I assume that you are around 20ish year old? Dont worry about it, you will 'grow out' of nervousness when you are much older. There is nothing wrong with you, its just your hormone running wild. This is just nature playing a trick on you. Hoep this helps.
Guest Posted September 9, 2006 Posted September 9, 2006 I assume that you are around 20ish year old? Dont worry about it, you will 'grow out' of nervousness when you are much older. There is nothing wrong with you, its just your hormone running wild. This is just nature playing a trick on you. Hoep this helps. Lol nah...im younger then 20, i cant even drive yet
littlepiggy1 Posted September 9, 2006 Posted September 9, 2006 It's normal. Basically, your mind is switching from "hey, I'm talking to a normal person" to "omfgIwantoripyourclothesoffanddoyouonthefloorrightnow!" The trick is to simply pretend they are a normal person. It can take time and practice. I still get hung-up sometimes when faced with a really hot chick, but with time you should be able to talk to them like anyone else.
infatuated Posted September 16, 2006 Posted September 16, 2006 I take it you are 15 turning 16 sometime this year maybe? I dont really know what you are going through, because I am a girl. But Right now I have a guy that I like (who is 15 turning 16) who pretty much has the same problem as you. When I try to talk to him, he will look down at the ground and answer quietly, or for example he was reading something in this article, so I asked him a question about it, and instead of answering me he just pushed the article closer to me. But what you have to realize, is that if a girl is coming up to you saying those things, she probably likes you. Just try to make small talk. How is your day going so far? What class do you have next? questions like that.
Bamaboy2006 Posted September 16, 2006 Posted September 16, 2006 i am exactly the same way. if a girl come sup to me and says hey, i have no idea how to keep the convo going, i start getting nervous and my voice gets really constrained and i get hot in the face and blush and weak in the knees
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