CrushedOrgans Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 Well, the fact he was back on the site and didn't contact you, there's your answer. Unless he hasn't checked his email yet...Though that's doubtful. Dump him, move on and don't look back. He's a dink. he could have gone on to figure out how you found out. maybe he thinks you're pretending to be someone who's contacting him. or that's all a conspiracy theory and he really just went on because that's what he does... i wouldn't worry about when he goes on the site anymore. he's not your problem now, you made sure of that. good for you.
Guest Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 Dump him before you get an STD and don't listen to the people saying he's on the same level as you... Gold memebers have to pay like hundreds of dollars and he's obviously not paying hundreds of dollars to look at peoples pictures and "have a laugh" The reason you pay is to be able to contact people and search for partners in specific states and towns I've browsed through it to see if I could find my boss and laugh at all the super freak old guys wearing pink leather thongs, HUGE difference between that and paying to be able to talk to and search for specific people Dump dump dump I like the idea of printing the ad out too
Mary3 Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 Well, the fact he was back on the site and didn't contact you, there's your answer. Unless he hasn't checked his email yet...Though that's doubtful. Dump him, move on and don't look back. He's a dink. He did check his email because thats how they contact eachother on that site ...so he chooses to ignore you and keeps hunting on the site. Good riddance ! He will likely get a disease from multiple sex partners. You dont want him anymore knowing that alone.....
Author MaryLee Posted September 11, 2006 Author Posted September 11, 2006 Well, he received the e-mail yesterday telling him I saw him on xxx. Also I saw him logged on the site when he claimed he was at work. It took him all day to send a response to my e-mail, but he came back with a doozy. He admitted to being on two porn websites advertising to have sex with couples. He said he didn't think he was doing anything wrong. He was furious. I guess because he got caught. It was a really a mean e-mail. He said that I had done things too. For example, he said remember that time you lied about your age? Also, remember the time you had sex with that guy right after your divorce (that was a year before I met him). He was trying to think of anything he could on me, but there wasn't any. He said "I'll come pick up my things. Just tell me when." I told him to pick them up in my driveway when I'm not at home. He said "Fine, have a nice life." He picked his things up this morning while I was at work. I am hurt and sickened. I thought he was such a great guy. This makes you not want to trust anyone anymore.
Fun2BMe Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 Sorry to hear about what has happened and how he handled it. Ideally he'd apologize and for his love of you take down the ads. Does he get paid for it or is it just for fun he has sex with the other couples? It doesn't really matter. The point is that he is trash. And yes, it's hard to really know who anyone is.
Mary3 Posted September 12, 2006 Posted September 12, 2006 Well, he received the e-mail yesterday telling him I saw him on xxx. Also I saw him logged on the site when he claimed he was at work. It took him all day to send a response to my e-mail, but he came back with a doozy. He admitted to being on two porn websites advertising to have sex with couples. He said he didn't think he was doing anything wrong. He was furious. I guess because he got caught. It was a really a mean e-mail. He said that I had done things too. For example, he said remember that time you lied about your age? Also, remember the time you had sex with that guy right after your divorce (that was a year before I met him). He was trying to think of anything he could on me, but there wasn't any. He said "I'll come pick up my things. Just tell me when." I told him to pick them up in my driveway when I'm not at home. He said "Fine, have a nice life." He picked his things up this morning while I was at work. I am hurt and sickened. I thought he was such a great guy. This makes you not want to trust anyone anymore. Boy you can tell he was pissed that he got caught ! And he just blew you off with a * fine * , I say **** him ! What a jerk ! Why the heck does he need sex with other people ? I mean he could have at least been up front with you in the beginning and told you he liked multiple sex with people . Some people are honest and tell their fetishes.....Others do what he did ...behind your back. What a creeep !
littlekitty Posted September 12, 2006 Posted September 12, 2006 Well done you for kicking him to the curb...! He deserved it. What an a-hole.
amerikajin Posted September 12, 2006 Posted September 12, 2006 Well, he received the e-mail yesterday telling him I saw him on xxx. Also I saw him logged on the site when he claimed he was at work. It took him all day to send a response to my e-mail, but he came back with a doozy. He admitted to being on two porn websites advertising to have sex with couples. He said he didn't think he was doing anything wrong. He was furious. I guess because he got caught. It was a really a mean e-mail. He said that I had done things too. For example, he said remember that time you lied about your age? Also, remember the time you had sex with that guy right after your divorce (that was a year before I met him). He was trying to think of anything he could on me, but there wasn't any. He said "I'll come pick up my things. Just tell me when." I told him to pick them up in my driveway when I'm not at home. He said "Fine, have a nice life." He picked his things up this morning while I was at work. I am hurt and sickened. I thought he was such a great guy. This makes you not want to trust anyone anymore. Aww, this is terrible. I'm sorry <here's a hug>. Not all dudes are like this, but I can certainly see why you might be distrustful of people in the future. Can I ask how you met this guy? Maybe if you have friends or family who can introduct you to someone and vouch for their character, that might be a better way to go from this point on.
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