BimmerNY Posted September 8, 2006 Posted September 8, 2006 Hey Guys, how is everyone today? Don't really know where to post this so thought I'd post it here. I dunno if some of you may remember but I made a very long post in the Relationships Forum about a month ago about breaking with my first and only girlfriend of 4 years. We used to have sex a lot. Probably 4-5 days out of the week. It's been over a month since I have had sex and my question is how do I deal with the dry spells? I know they can last as short as I meet a new person, or they can take years upon years to last until I meet the right person. I am in no way a sex fiend/addict, pervert, or creep. It's just that I was used to having a lot of sex and went to having nothing at all.
Rooster_DAR Posted September 8, 2006 Posted September 8, 2006 There are some great porn sites, I suggest using them for a while.
Author BimmerNY Posted September 8, 2006 Author Posted September 8, 2006 LOL I shoulda seen that one coming... Been there, done that...still not helping though. HAHA
Rooster_DAR Posted September 9, 2006 Posted September 9, 2006 Dude, if you can find a place where you can get laid without any commitments, or diseases, let me know. It would be great if there were people (women) out there that just want to shack up without any of the other emotions involved. I work full time, so I don't have time to go to college during the day, which would be a good place for something like this possibly. Good Luck!
Jaded-Arie Posted September 9, 2006 Posted September 9, 2006 Hey Guys, how is everyone today? Don't really know where to post this so thought I'd post it here. I dunno if some of you may remember but I made a very long post in the Relationships Forum about a month ago about breaking with my first and only girlfriend of 4 years. We used to have sex a lot. Probably 4-5 days out of the week. It's been over a month since I have had sex and my question is how do I deal with the dry spells? I know they can last as short as I meet a new person, or they can take years upon years to last until I meet the right person. I am in no way a sex fiend/addict, pervert, or creep. It's just that I was used to having a lot of sex and went to having nothing at all. Damn!!! I know about those dry spells . I've had a **** buddy, for the last 4 years, we get along great together and only hook up when inbetween relationships . We won't see each other sometimes for months and years, then out of the blue, its like: 'Hey, what's up, just touching base'. In FB speak: 'Hey, what's up, am inbetween relationships and horny as hell, u game ??? Time to dust off that little black book. **** Buddy all the way. But make sure you let the lady(s) know that you are not looking for a commitment.
Guest Posted September 9, 2006 Posted September 9, 2006 Yes, Bimmer!!! Don't look at it in a negative way. I read all of your previous posts and am glad you are at this point: You're a young, horny dude on the prowl for some hot girls and wonderful sex! You've learned from that disastrous breakup and kicked that crazy hurtful girl to the curb where she belongs! Don't force it, it will come. I have never heard of a young guy who never had sex again after his first relationship . . . Live life man! And don't harbor any negativity in your life, life is way too short for it!
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