almostthere Posted September 8, 2006 Posted September 8, 2006 My bf and I got in an argument last Sunday night over his exw....again. I try to listen to the advice on here and convince myself its not my place to say anything because we are not married but even if we stay together we cant get married for 8 years and I cannot take another 7 years of this keeping the peace. So...on Sunday I took my stand against him and won/lost. she calls him every day still for whatever reason...mostly to yell about this and that. well finally on sunday I just couldnt handle it anymore and said if this keeps happening then we are through. I said i have taken control of my divorce long before me and him even met now he needs to get control of his exw too. So finally i stormed out of the house and returned with alcohol because i knew i needed to calm down. After we shared a bottle of vodka and started a second one he left to get something from his car. I ended up changing his voicemail to hi this is his name and my name with his last name. John and Jane Smith for example. we cannot come to the phone right now please leave a message and we will call you back. The only reason i did it was to put my voice on his phone to hopefully deter his exw from calling so much. a little reminder that i do exist. And me having his last name sounded great after 14 shots. well...she heard it and got mad and jealous. his friend heard it and laughed and joked with me about it. but before he got off the phone with my bf my bf said yeah it did cause a problem. (meaning his ex gave him stuff for it). Why should he care what his exw still thinks? she is getting married and the kids have told us they have already asked them to be in the wedding. why would he care? I understand that he wasnt amused by the voicemail. I wasnt rude or anything tho. I could have been but didnt. He changed it today... And i didnt sneak into his voicemail...his ex called and left a message. he was proving a point and told me to check his messages. so i was already in there. I never expected him to keep it. but he didnt think it was funny at all.
laRubiaBonita Posted September 8, 2006 Posted September 8, 2006 I don't get it? he let you change his message, then he got mad cause XW, gave him crap?
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