delusionaldreamer Posted September 8, 2006 Posted September 8, 2006 well if you havent read my other post feel free to do so. but what it all boils down to is i feel as though i have grown alot since my marriage at the age of 22...but i havent grown enough and am unable to in this marriage. with my husband being 15 years my senior i am feeling compelled to gain my own independance so that i know if something ever happens to him i CAN take care of myself and my children (only 1/3 is his child). my dreams and wishes have all been put on hold for his dreams. i know that happens a lot in marriage and i was totally ok with it. but its as though he doesnt want me working on mine to take place and i cant help but feel that i am running out of time. at the young age of 27 my health is not great...ive expressed my concerns to my H that i fear my cervical cancer has returned....call it womens intuition versus getting the knowledge from a dr. i cant go to a dr due to lack of money and insurance. and yet you would think he would say we will find the money somehow just go and make sure you are ok....nope all i hear is how his back hurts since he broke it 5 years ago i am thinking we need a seperation for me to build up for myself and my children and i know that he is not one to be REASONED with. his insecurities will just land it at the conclusion that i want a divorce. i guess the question of wether love is ENOUGH to get you through all things im really needing the answer!?!?
Guest Posted September 9, 2006 Posted September 9, 2006 Only you can know when you have had enough and if you will be happier without being in a marriage with this man. I hope you take care of yourself and don't suffer health problems due to not going and getting yourself checked out. Follow your heart and your head....a very tough combination but very necessary. Good luck.
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