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I am in and have been in this relationship for over a year and a half, off and on, mostly because I am an idiot. I love her to no end.

I recently seeked some financial help from my Ex-Wife who I currently have no feelings of anything for, and furthermore do my very best not to converse with her due to her hollier than thou attitude, anyway I asked her if she could possibly cover a bill that I was not able to do, she obvisously could have said no, but she agreed to do it. Her birthday is this weekend, I decided instead of sending a thank you card I sent a bday e-greeting card, we do have 3 kids together, anyway I sent this, in this card there was nothing on it such as love, or anything that indicated or would give anyone the impression of that, however my GF thinks that was wrong of me, I merely used this card as more of a thank you, without actually saying it. Can anyone tell me whether I was right or wrong in doing this. Thanks.

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I don't think it was wrong. She's your ex, you have kids together, she did something nice for you that she did not have to do, and you said thanks with an e-greeting....that's hardly a huge gesture or anything. Your GF is jealous, but unreasonably so.

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Thank you for your quick response!!! I did just send the card for more of a thank you than anything else. I do not try to talk to my ex for any other reason but to talk to my kids, my GF just has an issue with her because of the way our relationship started. If you view one of the first threads that I posted it title Relationship Involving Kids you will see just a bit more about this. Thank you again for your quick response!!

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