What's the deal with text messages

[The write one]

Ok, what's up with infamous text messages after a break up. I don't know, but i see a lot of the people on here saying "texting this and texting that" Well, i think it's insulting and pretty mean spirted, that is if you plan on keeping contact and ended on a good note. Well, I was dumped by my finace and women of eight years about month ago and now all the communication i get from her---even though she was the one who said "i want to be friends"--- are text messages. Not even good ones one at that. I get sh** like, "hw ws ur wknd" What the **** is that. I'm doing the whole no contact thing as a means to get over this chick, and i really don't want to be friends right now, but i was her man of eight freakin years so i respond "Good" she replies "thats gd" and that's is the end of it. At least i wrote a whole word.

Why not be woman enough to pic up the phone and say hello, how was your weekend? I wasn't a ****ing crying, pleading bag of **** the last time I saw her. I was nice, didn't mention the relationship, i got my **** and i left. So the whole pushing to get back with her isn't even an excuse for this type of treatment. Not to mention, there wasn't a bad break up between us at all. Even though my heart exploded, dripping all over my lungs whe nshe gave me the news, i didn't hit, scream or yell. I did cried and plead a little, but that was a day or two after she broke up with me. It's almost month now.

I earlier refused to respond to her childish game of shorthand text games, so when she would text, i would call her. It makes more sense. Instead of pulling out my cell and thinking hard about "Let's see what am i gonna write here to show, her she really isn't that important to me anymore," I pick up a phone. Texting is a waist of time in my situation, because if you're with some one a third of your life and you don't feel anything a month later, then you're freaking tree.

And when I do call in responce to one of her texts, i just say, hey, how are you doin, i just found a case of your CD's in my car. Then i'm thrusted into how her day went or how her family is doing, when I really don't care. I'm just beinig cordial. My mamma taught me to respect people.

But this chick is acting like i have the freakin plague or somethin, which you can't even contract over the phone. Can somebody please explain what's the deal with the breakup texting. I say be an adult and call if you have something to say. You didn't text me when you broke my ****ing heart and ended the relationship, so show some responsiblitiy for what you created and call if you have something to say. Maybe she is trying to spare me from hearing her voice and feeling sad. Whomever believes this spares somebody grief, get over yourself. A text is much worse.

I don't know, i'm a little pissed that i've been reduced to shorthand text messages, so can someone wit ha clear head explain the purpose or what she is trying to prove.

After i get my laptop's coverage policy number from her (she bought it for me for on Christmas and i dropped it last week) I'm completely cuttin her off. I'm declaring that day as "My Ass Ain't Responding to No GD Text Messages From Her Day."

[The write one]

I guess i'm the only one going through this, but for all newly dumped people on here, be weary of the post-breakup text messages. I don't know what they mean exactly, but they make me angry nonetheless.

[The write one]

I guess i'm the only one still in pain over a break up and you all have found new loves....becasue no one wants to reply to this thread

[burning 4 revenge]

Didn't you post the same thread twice?

[The write one]

Si Senor, no one wants to advice me on this and i didn't want it to go too far down the list before it's lost forever in the threats of LOVESHAK

[burning 4 revenge]

The obvious truth you already know but don't want to accept. To go down from phone calls to texting is her way of beginning to distance herself. Less contact is usually better anyways.