What's the deal with text messages

[The write one]

Ok, what's up with infamous text messages after a break up. I don't know, but i see a lot of the people on here saying "texting this and texting that" Well, i think it's insulting. I was dumped by my finace and women of eight years about month ago and now all the communication i get from her, even though she said "i want to be friends," are through text messages. Not even good thought out ones. I get sh** like, "hw ws ur wknd" What the **** is that. I'm doing the whole no contact thing as a means to get over this chick, but i was her man of eight freakin years so i respond "Good" she replies "thats gd" and that's is the end of it.

Why not be woman enough to pic up the phone and say hello, how was your weekend? I wasn't a ****ing crying, pleading bag of **** the last time I saw her. I was nice, didn't mention the relationship, i got my **** and i left. So the whole pushing to get back with her isn't even an excuse for this type of treatment. Not to mention, there wasn't a bad break up between us at all. Even though my heart exploded into my lungs and felt the world emploding. i didn't hit, scream, yell whe nshe told me.I did cried and plead a little, but that was a day or two after she broke up with me. It's almost month now.

I earlier refused to respond to her childish game of shorthand text games, so when she would text, i would call her instead of pulling uot my cell and thinking hard about "Let's see what am i gonna write her to show, i'm over her." That's a waist of time, because if you're with some one a third of your life and you don't feel anything, then you're freaking tree.

And when I did call in responce to her text, i just say, hey, how are you doin, i just found a case of your CD's in my car. Then i be subjected to how her day went or family is doing, when I really don't care. I'm just beinig cordial, my momma taught me that.

But this chick is acting like i have the freakin plague or somethin, which you can't even contract over the phone. Can somebody please tell me what's the deal with the texting. i say be an adult and call if you have something to say. You didn't text me when you broke my ****in heart and ended the relationship, so show some responsiblitiy for the akwardness you created and call. Maybe she is trying to spare me from hearing her voice and feeling sad. Whom ever believes this spares somebody grief, get over yourself. A text is much worse.

I don't know, i'm a little pissed that i've been reduced to shorthand text messages, so can someone explain the purpose or what she is trying to prove.

After i get my laptop's coverage policy number from her (she bought it for me for Christmas and i dropped it last week) I'm completely cuttin her off. I'm declaring that day as "My Ass Ain't Responding to No GD Text Messages From Her Day."