justagirliegirl Posted September 8, 2006 Posted September 8, 2006 She asked me when my birthday was and I told her that it has passed and she asked me whether it was that day he was suppose to be doing something for her. And I told her, yes. He had asked her whether it was ok to postpone their plan, and he didnt tell her why. He told her that he might have to do something else. She said ok to him and thought nothing of it. He didnt tell her it was my birthday. Then the next day, he told her that he has postpone his plans and that he could do what he had promised for her. But since she had already thought that he had other plans so she already made other plans on that day. This revelation only makes true what everyone has said. You heard it straight from the horses mouth so to speak. He was acting like what he had to do for her was so important he had to postpone your birthday for it and now you know after talking to her that she really didn't even care if he came over or not and she told him that and he STILL didn't do anything for your birthday. There is no reason for him to be caretaker for her even if she is sick. I'm sure she has friends and family to do that. It looks like he still cares for her in a romantic way or he wouldn't be doing all this. I hope you have enough information now to proceed with kicking him to the curb.
Author Leena Posted September 8, 2006 Author Posted September 8, 2006 Yes .. I think I will walk away. I have too. Even his ex said that she had thought that he would have spent the day with me. She didnt know it was my bday. She had many problems with him too in the past. And one of it was he always kept blaming her for everything. And that was why she always argued with him because she couldnt stand him always blaming everything on her. So there, he told me that she was always bad-tempered and always angry at him. And she told me the reason why. Because he kept blaming things on her. She couldnt handle it. Imagine that you are sick and your bf is giving you hell by blaming things on you. Who wouldnt get angry and explode ? Walk, your intuition cant be more accurate. He already blamed his ex for everything and that was already when she was already sick. If he can do that to her, he will probably and is probably like that to me too. She said she can only be a friend to him. A relationship with him would have stressed her until it would have killed her. Only I can make the decision and I have to have the strength and courage to face him and tell him that I deserve better.
Buttaflyy Posted September 8, 2006 Posted September 8, 2006 YES! Good for you Girl!You've put things in prospective and you now have the upper hand. It would be good if you did just walk away as Walk mentioned. He really doesn't deserve any explaination. Good luck to you and stay strong minded.
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