Mimsicles Posted September 7, 2006 Posted September 7, 2006 Please please help me. My boyfreind dumped me last week, and i was heart broken, crying every night, feeling lonely ect. He was emailing me everyday saying he wasn't sure if he'd done the right thing, saying he hates himself for what he's done. His reason was he was confused about weather he wanted a relationship, but i was the best girlfriend he ever had, but he cant get serious with me now, because he'll only hurt me! So the other day a friend of his told me he is getting very close to another girl now, i am jealous of course but trying not to let it get to me.Its only been a week since we split. But then sudenly last nite, he send me an email saying, "doesn't take u long to get over me!" I haven't even looked at another lad since we split, but apparently i have!. So on MSN he starts a conversation with me asking how i was, so i was replying, and then out of no where he says "O go away, you've pissed me off!" my reply to that was "Why??" and then he says "i dont even want to be your mate, i did but not now!" I am seriously confused, he finished me because he didnt want a realationship, but then i hear he has this new girl:( . And then he gets angry with me because i am apparently moving on( but i'm not)and he is!!! I still have feelings for him deep down and i'm going to find it hard to move on, but i feel like he doesn't even care about me at all, he doesnt care how i feel or how upset i am, I just wish some one out there could tel me what they think is going through his brain! Is it jealousy that i may find some one else??? I am 18 and so is he, but the new girl he is seeing is only 16! Please can i have your help on this. What should i do???
tikigods Posted September 7, 2006 Posted September 7, 2006 the only reason he is ruining your life is because you keep allowing him in it. Go No contact with him, ignore him on messangers, don't take his calls or read his emails, you will be amazed at how much this will cut down on the drama (and help you heal)
HeyYouGuys Posted September 7, 2006 Posted September 7, 2006 He is acting like a child and playing games. Ignore him. Seriously, you need to start giving him the serious cold shoulder. He hurt YOU and now wants to keep you on the back burner? OH, HELL NO! You keep moving on. I think a 16 year old might be just his speed.....she is still too young and naive not to see through dumb games like this!
Guest Posted September 10, 2006 Posted September 10, 2006 He is trying to make u jealous, who agree with me?? Ignore the *******!!
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