What would you do if you received this?

[Guest]

Okay, so it's like been forever since you've seen or heard anything about this guy or gal that you used to like and who used to like you too. Say you two had a relationship. Maybe he or she liked you more than you did that person. You've moved on with your life. You're either in a steady, long term relationship or you're married. One day you open the mail and you find this 100 page love letter or more so, a story, from this guy or gal. Would you just toss it saying who gives a F anymore, be a little intrigued and read some parts of it, or read the whole darn thing? Would would you do? What would you think? Would you even care to know anymore?

[Sally00]

If I get a 100 page love letter/story from ANYBODY, I'm gonna read it. LOL. How can you not? Curiosity would kill me... and I would be one dead cat.

[agnf666]

100 page love letter. Oh I would read it. I mean all that effort that person took to write that, I would have to read it all.

[alphamale]

if they liked me more than i liked them i'd throw it in the recycle bin without reading it.

[Charisma]

I've been on both sides of the fence. There was a guy I liked for a very long time and when I confessed to having these feelings for him things didn't go anywhere. So after about two years I happened to spot him somewhere and purposely bumped into him just to find out what he'd been doing. It turns out he was still single, so we wound up going on a date. I've also had someone call me months after we parted ways and I found it weird because I had moved on from our experience. My advice is read the letter and tell this person the truth. I'm not sure how the relationship ended but maybe there are some unresolved issues on her end. If you're no longer interested then let her know. Honesty is always important and be sincere about it

[Pink Amulet]

Unless you want to bring all of that bull**** back again, I wouldn't read it.

[abitconfused]

I would have to read it. Or at least skim through it. But if you are happy with your current relationship or marriage, I wouldn't go any further than the trash afterwards. 100 pages? They got some issues.

[britchick]

I'd have to read it, but then I'd throw it away.

[littlekitty]

I'd probably scan through some of it out of sheer curiosity. But after that it would go straight in the trash.

 

I agree with abitconfused.... at 100 pages, they have issues. Mind you, to write a love letter after no contact for years is a strange on in itself.

 

I did once (many moons ago) receive a letter from an ex of several years before. But it wasn't a love letter... he just wrote to tell me he'd had counselling and dealt with his anger issues like I suggested when I left him.

[Jilly10340]

I would have to read it. Curiosity would get the best of me. If someone wrote me anything that was a 100 pages long, I'd really like to know what they had to say. Interesting.....

[Adunaphel]

A 100 page love letter after years of silence would make me worry about the guy. I'd skim through it and I'd certainly tell my SO about it, asking him for advice about what I should do (checking if the ex is okay, replying back to him...).

[Yoohoo]

I'd probably skim a bit of it, then realize how crazy that person really was, and see how much better off I am without them.

[Pink Amulet]

It sounds a bit stalker-esque. Is it literally 100 pages?