envenom Posted September 7, 2006 Posted September 7, 2006 I'm married to the same man for about 3 years now. We've been together 6 years. No kids. The problem is that I think about someone else more than my husband. In bed, at work, everything. That someone else is my 1st love 15 years ago. No guy has ever really measured up to him simply because I never wanted anyone else but him. I'm still in love with my ex. I love my husband, but I'm not in love with him. My ex is happily married with kids. I know, what a fool, move on. I can't simply forget him. So is it wrong to still love someone who you're not supposed to love anymore? Is it wrong to have your heart belong to someone else while you live your life with another? I know it's unfair to my husband, but I know I definitely am not my husband's first choice either. I have to admit he said a few mean things to me and ever since then, the thoughts of my ex just came on stronger.
DaNziNgQuEeN1 Posted September 9, 2006 Posted September 9, 2006 I wouldn't call it "wrong" but I can see how it is a problem. You should ask yourself why you decided to marry your husband in the first place. Did you marry him because you were settling for a "second choice" so to speak? Or have you always been in love with your husband and you've been thinking about your ex now more than ever because of the mean things your husband has been telling you? Obviously, it's important to know exactly what you're feeling and for whom because I don't think you'll ever be truly fulfilled if you're married to one man but are truly in love with another. Good luck!
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