Trizb84 Posted September 6, 2006 Posted September 6, 2006 the man i was carrying on an A w/ went home for the holiday, when he got back he seemed a bit off. I'm pretty sure he hooked up w/ an old fling while he was home. we havnt been seeing eachother for months now and I've made it clear to him time and time again that we r just friends, and he has no obligations to me that he wouldnt give to his other friends. He called today acting all wierd, and saying he had something he wanted to tell me but he wanted to tell me in person. Well it kind of worried me, so i told him to tell me over the phone, he claimed me owed it to me to tell me in person, and that it would make me sad. Those were the only clues given to me. I'm not sure what to think, if its about the girl (which im hoping it is) its all gravy, but he's seriously got me worried that it might be something else, something im really not going to be able to handle right now. so i guess what im asking is... 1. let him visit and tell me 2. just forget about it 3. try to make him tell me on the phone or 4. none of the above ?????
Guest Posted September 6, 2006 Posted September 6, 2006 None of the above! Walk away with your pride and dignity. You deserve better. Continue seeing this man and you will be in for more heartaches and disapointments. Find yourself someone who can commit to you and be there for you through thick and thin. Godd luck!
once removed Posted September 6, 2006 Posted September 6, 2006 OUCH I would find out in person if it was me. In an open place with lots of people. but I would find out. My brain would go to "Oh God, is he going to tell me he gave me something" I know my brain always jumps to the worst lol then the rest don't seem so bad. But its prob more that he has hooked up with someone else. So If it was me I would meet him. But I would also make sure my walls where up so he could not talk me into doing anything I didn't want to do.
Adunaphel Posted September 6, 2006 Posted September 6, 2006 You have to find out asap if it's something concerning your health. Or if he has put you in trouble in any way. I do hope it's nothing serious.
Author Trizb84 Posted September 8, 2006 Author Posted September 8, 2006 well, he spilled his guts on the phone. and it was the girl amongst other things. So quite the load off my shoulders. Thanx for ur replies, support is nice...kinda like the feeling, all warm and fuzzy, kinda like bunny slippers. TY all.
Guest Posted September 10, 2006 Posted September 10, 2006 well guest........what is "killing" you??? You say you are a MM of 20 years, so what do you want from this MW? You would think that it's the perfect affair.....she's not pressuring you for anything.
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