Totally Inappropriate!!

[apindal]

Oh wow, this thread has sure grown since I looked last. So much text to sort out, okay lets give it a try.

 

I talked to my SIL today while the girls were out in the pool again. I was a direct and polite as I could be and as I expected she was kind of obsinate. Not in so many words she told me she respected my opinion but that my husband, her brother would have the real final say in the matter. I think she must be nuts! What does she expect him to do? Take her side? Oh well, I tried to warn her. I do feel bad though.

 

I think most of you are right about just telling my husband. Its better he hear it from me than when Ashley blurts something out at an inopportune moment. He comes home tommrow morning so I will try and intercept him before his little girl comes running to hug him and sees some hello kitty floss disappearing between her cheeks. Just the look on his face would make it a photo to put in the family album LOL.

 

Okay now to the gory stuff.

 

What are you teaching them about their bodies and about their worth as a person?

 

Um, apparently more than you are. My girls know what kinda power they can have and theyve learned how to use it. Theyve got boys callin them at all hours of the day and they can get them to do whatever they want. I taught them what they need to know, not too much cause they are a little to young to know how babies or made hahaha, but i've taught them how to get what they want from boys, and thongs is one way for sure. Dont trick yourself into thinkin that your daughter is going to have some happy life and fall in love with some prince who treats her like gold cause shes got a Good Personality? this is reality, and you've got to work what you have to get what you want. my daughters are younger than yours but i would bet anything theyre smarter. No offense. Your SIL is doing your daughter a big favor.

 

You know what? I can see we have a big difference of opnion and though I think it is terrible what you are teaching your daughters, it is none of my business. But saying they are smarter than my daughter because of it is outright ignorant. Ashley is a wel-mannered, self-respecting young woman who doesn't need to flash her bum to get boys attention. She is 8 for crying out loud! She doesn't need boys attention. You said the boys are calling your daughters night and day? I guess that means they have cell phones. There are so many reasons they should not have cell phones at that age.

 

What is it that bothers you so much about underware that do not cover the full bottom? Children are just that , children , they often do not have the same sexual connotations about clothing or other things that adults place on them .So what is she teaching her children , probably nothing at this instance.

 

There is absolutly nothing creepy about any kind of underware except what twisted minds may place there . So if you have hang-ups about certain things , its your own hang-up . Do you think your own daughter looks cute in a party hat ? Well some people minght think thats creepy

 

You know.....I read this post and the others of you who posted who amazingly were pro-thong, I honestly thought everyone on this board would be on my side. I read them and re-read them and honestly, two days ago would have thought you were perverts or crazies, but I'll admit there are good points about what you said. Ashley doesn't see anything sexual about them, she just wants to wear them because her cousins do and probably because she sees grown women do and she just wants to be grown up. Thats pretty normal. I was the one seeing something sexual in it. It is my hang up, I will admit that. I suppose it is just the way I was raised.

 

What is it that bothers you so much about underware that do not cover the full bottom?

 

After I really thought about it, nothing really bothers me. I mean, I can see her cheeks now, but her cheeks are going to be there no matter if there is a back to them or not. Just as long as she doesn't go around without bottoms its as if she was wearing normal panties. When I read thru the thread, I realized I did kind of sound prudish and spinsterish yikes!! I never thought I would be THAT kind of mom. To be very honest I've almost kind of gotten used to seeing Ashely in them and its only been two days, it doens't even bother me as much! Am I crazy?! It really doesn't. Its almost kind of like I'm putting on airs, complaining about it now. Its not that bad once you get used to it. Though I am still firmly in the mindset of saying no once husband makes his verdict which will undoubtedly be a resounding NO as well. Not his little girl lol.

 

You have already stated that you put off your own views (or kinks as it may be ) about what your SIL does for a living and it's appropriatness for her daughters , which was not your place at all as she is their paernt. If you don't agree with her lifestyle , why let your daughter visit there at all? You are the parent here , stop being dramatic , if you don't want her wearing thongs , don't let her , take them away .No reason to start a family rift over it either , tell your H , tell him you solved the probl;em and move on with your life.

 

 

The reason I let Ashley stay at her cousins for two MONTHS, not weeks, is because she rarely gets to see them at all and they are so close in age I think it is good for her to spend time. She's an only child and doesn't get much sisterly time with anyone. Though my SIL are usually at odds, her daughters, despite being much like her, are good kids. I almost never have to tell them anything twice.

 

 

 

Just a question what kind of undies do YOU wear?

 

I wear thongs. Just out of curiosity, why does that matter?

 

 

Since there seems to have started some kind of debate about it in this thread, I'd just like to put in my two cents. People in my household walk around in their undies all the time. I think its really weird for people not to. What do you walk and lay around in, while at home? Dress slacks?

 

Speaking of which, though I did say I have grown accustomed to seeing Ashely wearing fishing-line for panties, I sure do miss seeing SpongeBob on her back-side bottom. I swear I used to be so annoyed by her old undies seeing that weird cartoony sponge all the time, what I wouldn't give to have SpongeBob back. At least there was room for his entire face on the backside! LOL

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[apindal]

Oh wow, this thread has sure grown since I looked last. So much text to sort out, okay lets give it a try.

 

I talked to my SIL today while the girls were out in the pool again. I was a direct and polite as I could be and as I expected she was kind of obsinate. Not in so many words she told me she respected my opinion but that my husband, her brother would have the real final say in the matter. I think she must be nuts! What does she expect him to do? Take her side? Oh well, I tried to warn her. I do feel bad though.

 

I think most of you are right about just telling my husband. Its better he hear it from me than when Ashley blurts something out at an inopportune moment. He comes home tommrow morning so I will try and intercept him before his little girl comes running to hug him and sees some hello kitty floss disappearing between her cheeks. Just the look on his face would make it a photo to put in the family album LOL.

 

Okay now to the gory stuff.

 

What are you teaching them about their bodies and about their worth as a person?

 

Um, apparently more than you are. My girls know what kinda power they can have and theyve learned how to use it. Theyve got boys callin them at all hours of the day and they can get them to do whatever they want. I taught them what they need to know, not too much cause they are a little to young to know how babies or made hahaha, but i've taught them how to get what they want from boys, and thongs is one way for sure. Dont trick yourself into thinkin that your daughter is going to have some happy life and fall in love with some prince who treats her like gold cause shes got a Good Personality? this is reality, and you've got to work what you have to get what you want. my daughters are younger than yours but i would bet anything theyre smarter. No offense. Your SIL is doing your daughter a big favor.

 

You know what? I can see we have a big difference of opnion and though I think it is terrible what you are teaching your daughters, it is none of my business. But saying they are smarter than my daughter because of it is outright ignorant. Ashley is a wel-mannered, self-respecting young woman who doesn't need to flash her bum to get boys attention. She is 8 for crying out loud! She doesn't need boys attention. You said the boys are calling your daughters night and day? I guess that means they have cell phones. There are so many reasons they should not have cell phones at that age.

 

What is it that bothers you so much about underware that do not cover the full bottom? Children are just that , children , they often do not have the same sexual connotations about clothing or other things that adults place on them .So what is she teaching her children , probably nothing at this instance.

 

There is absolutly nothing creepy about any kind of underware except what twisted minds may place there . So if you have hang-ups about certain things , its your own hang-up . Do you think your own daughter looks cute in a party hat ? Well some people minght think thats creepy

 

You know.....I read this post and the others of you who posted who amazingly were pro-thong, I honestly thought everyone on this board would be on my side. I read them and re-read them and honestly, two days ago would have thought you were perverts or crazies, but I'll admit there are good points about what you said. Ashley doesn't see anything sexual about them, she just wants to wear them because her cousins do and probably because she sees grown women do and she just wants to be grown up. Thats pretty normal. I was the one seeing something sexual in it. It is my hang up, I will admit that. I suppose it is just the way I was raised.

 

What is it that bothers you so much about underware that do not cover the full bottom?

 

After I really thought about it, nothing really bothers me. I mean, I can see her cheeks now, but her cheeks are going to be there no matter if there is a back to them or not. Just as long as she doesn't go around without bottoms its as if she was wearing normal panties. When I read thru the thread, I realized I did kind of sound prudish and spinsterish yikes!! I never thought I would be THAT kind of mom. To be very honest I've almost kind of gotten used to seeing Ashely in them and its only been two days, it doens't even bother me as much! Am I crazy?! It really doesn't. Its almost kind of like I'm putting on airs, complaining about it now. Its not that bad once you get used to it. Though I am still firmly in the mindset of saying no once husband makes his verdict which will undoubtedly be a resounding NO as well. Not his little girl lol.

 

You have already stated that you put off your own views (or kinks as it may be ) about what your SIL does for a living and it's appropriatness for her daughters , which was not your place at all as she is their paernt. If you don't agree with her lifestyle , why let your daughter visit there at all? You are the parent here , stop being dramatic , if you don't want her wearing thongs , don't let her , take them away .No reason to start a family rift over it either , tell your H , tell him you solved the probl;em and move on with your life.

 

 

The reason I let Ashley stay at her cousins for two MONTHS, not weeks, is because she rarely gets to see them at all and they are so close in age I think it is good for her to spend time. She's an only child and doesn't get much sisterly time with anyone. Though my SIL are usually at odds, her daughters, despite being much like her, are good kids. I almost never have to tell them anything twice.

 

 

 

Just a question what kind of undies do YOU wear?

 

I wear thongs. Just out of curiosity, why does that matter?

 

 

Since there seems to have started some kind of debate about it in this thread, I'd just like to put in my two cents. People in my household walk around in their undies all the time. I think its really weird for people not to. What do you walk and lay around in, while at home? Dress slacks?

 

Speaking of which, though I did say I have grown accustomed to seeing Ashely wearing fishing-line for panties, I sure do miss seeing SpongeBob on her back-side bottom. I swear I used to be so annoyed by her old undies seeing that weird cartoony sponge all the time, what I wouldn't give to have SpongeBob back. At least there was room for his entire face on the backside! LOL

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Buttaflyy]

Oh wow, this thread has sure grown since I looked last. So much text to sort out, okay lets give it a try.

 

I talked to my SIL today while the girls were out in the pool again. I was a direct and polite as I could be and as I expected she was kind of obsinate. Not in so many words she told me she respected my opinion but that my husband, her brother would have the real final say in the matter. I think she must be nuts! What does she expect him to do? Take her side? Oh well, I tried to warn her. I do feel bad though.

 

I think most of you are right about just telling my husband. Its better he hear it from me than when Ashley blurts something out at an inopportune moment. He comes home tommrow morning so I will try and intercept him before his little girl comes running to hug him and sees some hello kitty floss disappearing between her cheeks. Just the look on his face would make it a photo to put in the family album LOL.

 

Okay now to the gory stuff.

 

What are you teaching them about their bodies and about their worth as a person?

 

Um, apparently more than you are. My girls know what kinda power they can have and theyve learned how to use it. Theyve got boys callin them at all hours of the day and they can get them to do whatever they want. I taught them what they need to know, not too much cause they are a little to young to know how babies or made hahaha, but i've taught them how to get what they want from boys, and thongs is one way for sure. Dont trick yourself into thinkin that your daughter is going to have some happy life and fall in love with some prince who treats her like gold cause shes got a Good Personality? this is reality, and you've got to work what you have to get what you want. my daughters are younger than yours but i would bet anything theyre smarter. No offense. Your SIL is doing your daughter a big favor.

 

You know what? I can see we have a big difference of opnion and though I think it is terrible what you are teaching your daughters, it is none of my business. But saying they are smarter than my daughter because of it is outright ignorant. Ashley is a wel-mannered, self-respecting young woman who doesn't need to flash her bum to get boys attention. She is 8 for crying out loud! She doesn't need boys attention. You said the boys are calling your daughters night and day? I guess that means they have cell phones. There are so many reasons they should not have cell phones at that age.

 

What is it that bothers you so much about underware that do not cover the full bottom? Children are just that , children , they often do not have the same sexual connotations about clothing or other things that adults place on them .So what is she teaching her children , probably nothing at this instance.

 

There is absolutly nothing creepy about any kind of underware except what twisted minds may place there . So if you have hang-ups about certain things , its your own hang-up . Do you think your own daughter looks cute in a party hat ? Well some people minght think thats creepy

 

You know.....I read this post and the others of you who posted who amazingly were pro-thong, I honestly thought everyone on this board would be on my side. I read them and re-read them and honestly, two days ago would have thought you were perverts or crazies, but I'll admit there are good points about what you said. Ashley doesn't see anything sexual about them, she just wants to wear them because her cousins do and probably because she sees grown women do and she just wants to be grown up. Thats pretty normal. I was the one seeing something sexual in it. It is my hang up, I will admit that. I suppose it is just the way I was raised.

 

What is it that bothers you so much about underware that do not cover the full bottom?

 

After I really thought about it, nothing really bothers me. I mean, I can see her cheeks now, but her cheeks are going to be there no matter if there is a back to them or not. Just as long as she doesn't go around without bottoms its as if she was wearing normal panties. When I read thru the thread, I realized I did kind of sound prudish and spinsterish yikes!! I never thought I would be THAT kind of mom. To be very honest I've almost kind of gotten used to seeing Ashely in them and its only been two days, it doens't even bother me as much! Am I crazy?! It really doesn't. Its almost kind of like I'm putting on airs, complaining about it now. Its not that bad once you get used to it. Though I am still firmly in the mindset of saying no once husband makes his verdict which will undoubtedly be a resounding NO as well. Not his little girl lol.

 

You have already stated that you put off your own views (or kinks as it may be ) about what your SIL does for a living and it's appropriatness for her daughters , which was not your place at all as she is their paernt. If you don't agree with her lifestyle , why let your daughter visit there at all? You are the parent here , stop being dramatic , if you don't want her wearing thongs , don't let her , take them away .No reason to start a family rift over it either , tell your H , tell him you solved the probl;em and move on with your life.

 

 

The reason I let Ashley stay at her cousins for two MONTHS, not weeks, is because she rarely gets to see them at all and they are so close in age I think it is good for her to spend time. She's an only child and doesn't get much sisterly time with anyone. Though my SIL are usually at odds, her daughters, despite being much like her, are good kids. I almost never have to tell them anything twice.

 

 

 

Just a question what kind of undies do YOU wear?

 

I wear thongs. Just out of curiosity, why does that matter?

 

 

Since there seems to have started some kind of debate about it in this thread, I'd just like to put in my two cents. People in my household walk around in their undies all the time. I think its really weird for people not to. What do you walk and lay around in, while at home? Dress slacks?

 

Speaking of which, though I did say I have grown accustomed to seeing Ashely wearing fishing-line for panties, I sure do miss seeing SpongeBob on her back-side bottom. I swear I used to be so annoyed by her old undies seeing that weird cartoony sponge all the time, what I wouldn't give to have SpongeBob back. At least there was room for his entire face on the backside! LOL

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

OMG! PLEASE DON'T LET ANYONE CHANGE YOUR OPINION OF THIS. Thongs are NOT appropriate underwear for kids! At all! I find it shameful that kids aren't even ashamed to walk around with their cheeks exposed.

 

What's with your SIL's attitude? If I were you, I'd have to be a lil more firm than that with her. I'd think she's lost her mind!

[apindal]

LOL I didn't mean to scare you buttafly. Just because I don't mind so much anymore, doesn't mean I am in favor either. Ultimately it will be my husband who decides.

 

My SIL does have an attitude, I will be the first one to admit that, but I've known her for over a decade now and that is just the way she is. Get this, she assured me that the girls sunbathed (which accounts for the tan-lines I saw) in the 'early afteroon' during the summer, so that there was less traffic going by. Is that supposed to reassure me or something? Even if there is little traffic, just ONE car going by is too many to see girls that age sunbathing in thongs. I'm so glad my husband is nothing like my SIL!

[Brittanyjean06]

People what is wrong with you? is this girl 17?? 17??? Almost 18? please tell me I've been mistaken and this girl is 10 because than I could see what the big deal is...

[norajane]

People what is wrong with you? is this girl 17?? 17??? Almost 18? please tell me I've been mistaken and this girl is 10 because than I could see what the big deal is...

 

She's 8. Wearing thongs in public while sunbathing at her aunt's house, and now wearing them at home where her mom doesn't approve and expects dad to blow a gasket when he finds out tomorrow.

[Eliseyard]

Its not like it traumatized me or anything but I really felt like a filthy pervert for a while after that. What I'm saying is that even if they are his daughters, your husband is still a man and biology doesn't change its laws for family. An attractive butt is an attractive butt. I can see, I think most men can see why he wouldn't want to see his daughters in thongs, walking around the house.

 

And let me tell you one last thing, you might be asking for big trouble. Afterall, when a man gets in the mood, he becomes kind of an irrational animal. Don't think that just because its an 8 year old butt in a thong he is seeing when hormones call, that is going to stop him from doing something that may affect everyone in your family's life forever. Just some food for thought.

 

 

You sound xactly like my hubby when Ifirst put them in thongs. He sayd all that stuff too. he begged and pleaded with me not to but now hes used to it. I told him then that I was the mother and since I was a girl like them I should get to decide how they dressed cause he doesn't know anythin about girl clothes. My hubbys a good man. I know he's gotten boners cause of them in thongs before but thats just what happens with men, it doesnt mean anything. He'd never do anything bad. If i'm being inconsiderate or cruel to him than thats too bad, hes living in a house full of girls and hes going to have to get used to it. Funny that you people seem to be offended by it but i never hear any complaints from him. Not anymore leastways

[burning 4 revenge]

:lmao:

 

This thread is hilarious.

[blind_otter]

Fisrst of all, i think its cute when the thong is sticking out in the back!

 

Maybe you should get with your male friends and find out what men tend to think about women who have their thongs hanging out of their pants.

 

Hooooochie mamaaaaaaaaaaaa!

 

All my male friends tend to point the thongs out and giggle about the lady in question being a hooch.

 

You may think it's cute, the rest of the world thinks it's tacky. But that never stopped Tammy Fae, did it!

[delnoire]

My hubbys a good man. I know he's gotten boners cause of them in thongs before but thats just what happens with men, it doesnt mean anything. He'd never do anything bad. If i'm being inconsiderate or cruel to him than thats too bad, hes living in a house full of girls and hes going to have to get used to it. Funny that you people seem to be offended by it but i never hear any complaints from him. Not anymore leastways

 

 

So you admit it arouses him to see them. Well since its your household and it sounds like you are the one who is in control, its your business. I've just got one question. What happens when your daughters get older? Like when they become teeangers. You seem pretty arrogant about how pretty you are, but they will be younger and fresher, and suddenly your hubby might be looking their way more often than yours. I sense there might be some competition to come. Do you really want that? You'd certainly be on the losing end, being more ancient and having been with you for so long, your husband might start to find you boring in comparison. Think about it. You should nip this in the bud right now before it becomes a problem.

[tinktronik]

What the hell has happened to this thread?

[apindal]

What the hell has happened to this thread?

 

 

ooooookay.....

 

Just for those of you who were wondering, my husband got home early this morning. I was dreading it and looking forward to it both, given the current situation (see this thread) It took him about five minutes before he noticed what Ashley was wearing for underoos, I never was able to find where she is hiding those darn things! I was ready to dive behind the couch and wait it out, but I was really surprised when he didn't seem to care so much. I mean, he looked a bit taken aback for a moment and a little uncomfortable maybe, I don't think he hugged Ashely as tight as he usually does after he saw them, and he didn't let her sit on his lap at breakfast, which is sort of a tradition they have when he comes back from his business trips. Ashely's feelings were obviously hurt when he refused her but I'm sure she doesn'trealize its because of what shes got on, the look in her eyes was so hurt I'm sure had she known she would have sworn off thongs for the rest of her life if that is cost. Otherwise my husband hasn't been acting any different and breakfast was as pleasant as could be, other than Ashley sulking at the table.

 

After breakfast was done my husband politely asked if he could talk to me and the SIL privately together. Oh great, here it comes, I was thinking. The end for all of us. He's just been holding back, he's been waiting to explode when the kids aren't around! So it was with a certain feeling of dread that I walked into the meeting. But the mood was surprisingly, pleasantly cordial and civilized. And to my shock he ended up siding with his sister!!!! I NEVER NEVER NEVER saw that one coming. I guess she's got more of a hold on him than i ever thought. Its a good thing I've gotten used to seeing Ashley in her new underwear (if you can even call them that!) these last few days or else I would have been the one to watch out for.

But honestly when he told me he didn't really mind but that it might take him a few weeks or so before he is going to be able to hug her and be affectionate with her again, which I think is a terrible price to pay, but I guess that is for him to decide. I had to admit that in these last few days I've begun not to mind either. When she first came home in them I really did mind, alot. But now after so much exposure and after mulling over some peoples opnions in this thread who expressed opinions similar to my SIL, and who all seem to be responsible parents except for Elise (!) I have to really admit that I don't have a problem with it anymore. Well maybe a tiny intsy weensy problem but so small its not even worth starting a row about. So we agreed we're going to let Ashely keep them and wear them when she wants, so long as 1. It can't be sticking out the back, and 2. She's got some skirts that are TOO short for such underwear to accompany it. I'm sorry, thats where I draw the line. Once her cousins and aunt leave I am going to take her shopping for some more 'tasteful' thongs, because basically, as a thong woman myself, I know there has to be ones in her size that have more of a back then the thickness of floss.

 

Though I still don't agree with SIL on many many things, I guess she is not completely wrong all the time and we're kind of getting along now so the rest of the visit should be a good happy one. I can't wait to go to the zoo tomorrow, its been forever since we've done anything like that as a family. And now that I'm calm enough to relax about it I think Ashley does kind of look cute in them. Lol.

[norajane]

I'm glad things worked out for your family, although a few weeks of less affectionate behavior from your husband toward your daughter might hurt her more than you think.

 

I'd caution against the thong/skirt combination with skirts of any length...wind blows them up and boys are notorious for looking up skirts whenever they can.

[blind_otter]

maybe you should explain to your daughter that her dad is uncomfortable with her new look and that's why he's not as affectionate.

 

Children are more aware than most of their parents realize.

 

I'm just SAYING.

[burning 4 revenge]

My hubbys a good man. I know he's gotten boners cause of them in thongs before but thats just what happens with men, it doesnt mean anything. He'd never do anything bad. If i'm being inconsiderate or cruel to him than thats too bad, hes living in a house full of girls and hes going to have to get used to it. Funny that you people seem to be offended by it but i never hear any complaints from him. Not anymore leastways

 

 

So you admit it arouses him to see them. Well since its your household and it sounds like you are the one who is in control, its your business. I've just got one question. What happens when your daughters get older? Like when they become teeangers. You seem pretty arrogant about how pretty you are, but they will be younger and fresher, and suddenly your hubby might be looking their way more often than yours. I sense there might be some competition to come. Do you really want that? You'd certainly be on the losing end, being more ancient and having been with you for so long, your husband might start to find you boring in comparison. Think about it. You should nip this in the bud right now before it becomes a problem.

 

:lmao: I love this thread. I have to wonder if the poster and responder are the same person

[insomnie]

I am twenty and don't have any kids, but I think the idea of an 8 year old in a thong is COMPLETELY inappropriate. Sure, SOME 8 year olds might not attach a sexual connotation to such things now, but the truth is, a lot of other people do. Like many of their classmates, who will undoubtedly find out the girl is wearing a thong (there's gym class, and kids talk), people passing by watching them sunbathe, etc. I think it's the paretns' responsibility to prevent their EIGHT-YEAR OLD daughter's image from becoming sexualized. Why? Because it's tacky, and because people will treat her differently (less like an child) knowing what her underwear looks like, and the change in treatment, in the long scheme of things, will not be to her benefit. Even her dad is doing it already.

 

And, in this culture kids are more sexualized than I think most adults realize. I have a little brother who just started kindergarten, and I was hanging out at the house one day when I caught him and a female friend lying together on a couch and "playing kissing". They are five. And I know another kid who was caught having oral sex with a girl in his class when they were 7. So, kids know what's up. Don't let your daughter put herself in a position to be objectified. She might not think it's sexual, but other people will...and I think 8 is a little too young for that. Give her a chance to be a child.

[Guest]

OMG...I thought I'd be the only young person on here who disagreed with this crap. I'm 22 and if I had a kid she sure as heck wouldn't be running around in thongs. I'm a psychology major and the psychological damage that is being done to our children by having to grow up faster in a society that no longer values childhood is irreversible. Our young girls, instead of playing with dolls and playing dodgeball, are worrying about VPL and their weight. By placing all this emphasis on their looks and fashion and their bodies, we are lowering their self-esteem and doing them a disservice. Those parents who think this is OK are just perpetuating the problem of the decline of childhood. My mom is a teacher and she sees women all the time who think it's OK for their daughters to dress like whores in the name of fashion. And the guys...they just those types of girls are easy.

[FredTravels]

What is VPL?

[apindal]

This turned out to be a wonderful weekend! The SIL and her girls are gone, and Ithink I'm actually going to miss them. I never thought I would say a thing like that LOL.

 

Thanks for all of you for helping me through a rather strange week. And Fred, VPL is visible panty line.

 

I can understand those of you who are against 8 year olds wearing undees with no back. I was too just a week ago, but if its what she wants to do, and its not causing any trouble or harm I can't see the point in fighting it anymore. Ashley isn't acting any different and from what I have seen when her friends have come around these past few days, they don't treat her any different. But to each their own. Thanks again for offering your opinions. I think I may become more of an internet person after this. I didn't know strangers could offer insightful advice.

[pricillia]

Its not like it traumatized me or anything but I really felt like a filthy pervert for a while after that. What I'm saying is that even if they are his daughters, your husband is still a man and biology doesn't change its laws for family. An attractive butt is an attractive butt. I can see, I think most men can see why he wouldn't want to see his daughters in thongs, walking around the house.

 

And let me tell you one last thing, you might be asking for big trouble. Afterall, when a man gets in the mood, he becomes kind of an irrational animal. Don't think that just because its an 8 year old butt in a thong he is seeing when hormones call, that is going to stop him from doing something that may affect everyone in your family's life forever. Just some food for thought.

 

 

You sound xactly like my hubby when Ifirst put them in thongs. He sayd all that stuff too. he begged and pleaded with me not to but now hes used to it. I told him then that I was the mother and since I was a girl like them I should get to decide how they dressed cause he doesn't know anythin about girl clothes. My hubbys a good man. I know he's gotten boners cause of them in thongs before but thats just what happens with men, it doesnt mean anything. He'd never do anything bad. If i'm being inconsiderate or cruel to him than thats too bad, hes living in a house full of girls and hes going to have to get used to it. Funny that you people seem to be offended by it but i never hear any complaints from him. Not anymore leastways

 

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[Buttaflyy]

This turned out to be a wonderful weekend! The SIL and her girls are gone, and Ithink I'm actually going to miss them. I never thought I would say a thing like that LOL.

 

Thanks for all of you for helping me through a rather strange week. And Fred, VPL is visible panty line.

 

I can understand those of you who are against 8 year olds wearing undees with no back. I was too just a week ago, but if its what she wants to do, and its not causing any trouble or harm I can't see the point in fighting it anymore. Ashley isn't acting any different and from what I have seen when her friends have come around these past few days, they don't treat her any different. But to each their own. Thanks again for offering your opinions. I think I may become more of an internet person after this. I didn't know strangers could offer insightful advice.

 

Excuse me but....Why would her friends know what underwear she is wearing??

[CrushedOrgans]

fathers gettting boners from seeing their daughters hot, young asses in a thong?

 

ew.

 

eliseyard, if you're for real, hand your kids over to someone safer and who can take better of children, someone who has at least half a brain and some common sense.

[littlekitty]

fathers gettting boners from seeing their daughters hot, young asses in a thong?

 

ew.

 

eliseyard, if you're for real, hand your kids over to someone safer and who can take better of children, someone who has at least half a brain and some common sense.

 

WORD.

[CrushedOrgans]

WORD.

 

 

oops, you're definitely right about the pukey. forgot to add my own. :sick:

[reddog63]

Why is decision upto Hubby?

 

You sound kind of weak. You tell daughter not to wear them at first and she continues to wear them before hubby comes home??? Because you can not find them?? If I tell my kid not to wear them, they would not. If I told daughter to hand all of them over, she would.

 

8 yr old wearing them is not appropriate, period.

 

I can see you are going to have a hell of a time raising her when she gets to be a teenager. She knows you have no backbone.

 

I would not let my daughter go spend a few months with a sister in law that lets them sunbath in thongs. What else will she learn.......that it is ok to have sex at an early age? Or something else not age appropriate. Just because she is family, you still have to be on guard who your children stay with.

 

And now your ok with them........jeezzzzz