MrDemon Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 as some of you already knw if u have read my previous threads.... my ex and i broke up in early august, but when she comes to visit or i go to visit her, we still have sex, i dont have a problem with this at all, as i am a guy lol n we also like send sext texts and have phone sex.... is this wrong in any way?
blind_otter Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 no, as long as you are both consenting adults.
tikigods Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 Its not "wrong" it just won't help either one of you ever move on if you ever want to
Irishguy3137 Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 Regarding whether it is right or wrong, it is both of your business and yours alone. If you were seeing other people while still doing that with one another, then yes, it is wrong. But otherwise...you are both capable of making your own decisions. However, regarding your statement about "I'm a guy afterall" I don't agree with that because personally, i wouldn't keep up with what you were doing, because I dont hold such a high value in that kind of thing versus having someone im compatible with and able to talk to and get along with. I think that you drag that out, but you feel shallow about it, unless of course you dont have feelings for her at all and just consider it a hookup anyway. But the truth is to it all, and dont feel like im picking you apart because im not...im saying, you still have feelings involved. And the only way you are going to get past that is either telling her you want things to be official again, or telling her that you dont want to have that anymore. The longer you stay in it the way you are, the more you set yourself up for a situation that you will consider unfair in the future...id say talk it out, say what you want. Be honest, and dont budge.
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