hentajus Posted September 1, 2006 Posted September 1, 2006 okay...it's like this...i have a huge crush on this girl in my class (i am currently in 9th grade and im 15 yearz old) and i am realy very shy especialy with girls... we only had a few small conversations and one day me and a couple of my friends were talking about which girl we like and well the girl i like is very beutiful(ATLEAST FOR ME SHE SURE IS) but ofcourse i like her inside more and my friends said stuff like "nw she dosent look good" and stuff like that but i like her inside a lot... and well il get to the point... i believe my friends told her that and she did well all kinds of girl tests if i like her like when i look at her she quickly turns at me and smiles or laughs... of course im super shy so i just turn to the other direction and blush then she came one day and as not usual she said hi and gave me her hand to shake... a girls test... if a boy likes her he would normaly hold the hand for a few extra seconds...and then she asked one of my classmates before class to sit in the back (the classmate that was sitting next to her) and she talked another classmate into trying to talk me in to sitting with her... and another day i was just sitting and she and her friend (a girl) sat down next to me... and then she asked me questions like "have you ever kissed a girl" and stuff like that...but i didnt take the fall in the hand shaking and i didnt take the initiative to sitting down next 2 her... and i havent talked to her much because: 1.Im very shy especialy next to girls 2.She is very nice and gentle but... she kinda has this character to say anything... i mean if i tried asking her out and if she wouldnt want to im sure she would say "hah! he asked me out n stuff to the entire class" and perhaps make fun of me thats the way she is... oh and once she kind of made fun of me in class saying stuff like "you realy have a big head" "youve sure been gaining pounds right?" and well... with all of my shyness especialy next to the girl i like i was just sitting there and blushing but then after class she said: ...wow u didnt say anything back to me or make fun of me...look as far as i can gather you took me seriously...those were jokes... no hard feelings ok? ) oh and she's the kind of girl that realy likes to chat and has a lot of friends...and she might just be curious about if i like her... perhaps maybe flattered thats all... i just need to know is there any chance she may like me and how to approach her... i mean what to say first what kind of conversation should i make and stuff like that any info is needed thank you all for reeding all info is VERY VERY VERY appreciated! THANK YOU!!!
Dragon3435 Posted September 4, 2006 Posted September 4, 2006 There this Pet Fish store this girl was cute when I saw her. I dunno if she is into me or not but I have seen her touch her hair when she came up to me asking if I needed any help. The only thing that I'm afraid of is if she is a lot younger than me and she wouldn't be interested if she knows my age. I dunno her age but I'm just assuming she could be between 18-20 and I'm 28 so I dunno if she will be turn off by that. Also I dunno if she is interested I guess I have to go back again to see if she is.
Author hentajus Posted September 12, 2006 Author Posted September 12, 2006 could anyone please tell me what to say... i havent talked to her in quite a while and i wanna ask her out
directx Posted September 12, 2006 Posted September 12, 2006 Hey hentajas, here is reality. You are cursed with super shyness and fear of rejection. The way i get around it is to find something you both have in common that you can talk to her about, hopefully over the phone. I would do this. If you both are taking the same subject, like algebra 1, say you need help with it (even if you dont) and ask if she can help you. If she says no, then she is not into you. If she says anything else, then meet together to study or do it over the phone or whatever. If you like a weekly tv show, watch it and discuss it. Stuff like that. My point is, if you are too shy to ask her out, then simply start with talking and phone number. There you will feel it out better and get more comfortable with each other. If she starts talking about her boyfriend or guys she likes, guess what? You are a friend. Anything else, its cool. Keep us updated!
ted1011 Posted September 12, 2006 Posted September 12, 2006 my best advice to u is jus talk to her, if wat u say is true about her talking to u and makin jokes about u, in my books is most definately a sign that she likes u or at least ones to get to know u better. u r a very lucky guy, the girl i liked found out that i liked her and made a complete mockery of me, now that was the 1st girl ive ever liked through high school and now i dont even talk to girls after tht exerience. you should sit beside tht girl in class and have a start a conversation, and all u got do when she is talkin is just listen and make straight eye contact with, yunno y becuase girls love it wen u listen to them. just a little advice im giving you, good luck with her.
Guest Posted September 13, 2006 Posted September 13, 2006 Hey I was reacently in the same posistion. From the similarities it sounds like she likes you. First ask her to go somewhere don't really call it a date and if she meets you there make your move, that's what I did. And it turned out great.
Author hentajus Posted September 22, 2006 Author Posted September 22, 2006 thx guys! thanks a lot for all the info! i'l try that
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