Divine Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 My situation is this, me an my Ex-boyfriend have been broken up for over two months now and im still not coping at all, in fact im here waiting patiently for him to realize how stupid he was and come to his senses, i know deep down this isnt going to happen, in fact he told me he loves being single and that he can be with girls and no strings attached, while im here and cant even think of being with another guy. Some background info, we were involed for 3 years (wedding dated was set) he cheated on me and suddenly deceided married life is not for him and that he will never get married. so tell me, how do i cope? i wont lie, i still love him not even one percent less i love him. is there hope for me? By the way i have stoped communicationg with him after being totally disrespected, i finally got the hint, but it just hurt because he hasn't made not one effort after being with me for 3 years to even call to find out if im dead or alive. advice would be appreciated. Thanks:confused:
KittenMoon Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 2 months isn't much after a long relationship- give yourself more time. It may be a few more months, maybe more, before you begin to adjust. Sorry to hear about your ex- that was terribly cold of him.
Brittanyjean06 Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 Why do people think after two months everything should be all nice and dandy. I am sorry to hear about your break up but of course you still love him, its only been two months. You can't sit and wait for him you gotta move on in a way thats possible for you. Two months doesn't do anything but still be so incredibly fresh for you. So only time will heal and tell
Author Divine Posted September 5, 2006 Author Posted September 5, 2006 i know you are both right, and i am really trying to be as mature about my situation as i can be. I am embracing my hurt and trying to deal with it the best way i can. But its hard and there are times when i sink into a big black hole, and totally neglect myself but im taking my vitamins and excercising and trying to stay healthy and im being as optimistic as possible (lets see if there is a pot of gold at the end of my rainbow) Thanks for the comments
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