should I go out with him?

[Guest]

Please, I dont know who I should believe and what should I do.

 

I started a new job from May, and there is a guy at work who is really sweet.

 

I chated with one lady at work, she told me that sweet guy is a player, I should try to avoid him. she also said he has dated one girl from work before, and they did not end up together, but he has been telling people at work things that did not happen between them happened (you know what I mean)

 

Lady Two told me, he is a good man when he settles down, (maybe she trying to say he doesnt want to commit).

 

these two lady don't know he has already told me he likes me. and asking me out.

 

He has talkd to me once, told me he likes me, and he want to go out with me and see what happens from there. He did told me he dated someone from work before (he even told me who she is) but he said she cheated on him, thats why they break up.

 

At work , he is great, helps everybody, good Leader. active, fun to be with. very sweet. Seems to be a very good person.

 

I dont know him much off work, we had talked once, I told him I am willing to get to know each other better. (before I talked to the other two lady)

 

Now, I don't know, If I should believe Lady one, and to avoid him, not going out with him? (to prevent he play me around, then dump me then tell lies at work about me and him)

 

I am a very simple girl, lady one said I looks innocent, and I am sweet, thats why she think he would ask me out, she just want to help me, dont want to see me get hurt, (she doesnt know, he already told me he likes, and he already asked me out, I did not tell anything either)

 

Please any opinion welcome. thank you

[sockpuppet]

I don't see a problem with giving it a try. Just be wary, see how long he's willing to wait to get into bed. A guy like the one your friend warned of would probably expect results early on. Take it slow, and see for yourself.