Dayna3d2 Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 I've posted about this man before but there has been more problems I i figure I'll just start a new thread. I just don't understand him. I've been seeing somone for about 2 months now. About two weeks ago he told me that he just wasn't ready for a serious relationship but wanted to continue seeing/ talking to me. This was fine and i backed off but then the following week he started sending the signels again that maybe he wanted a relationship (calling everynight whether he was able to see me or not, and even practically spent the weekend at my house.) Suddenly last weds. he flicked the switch again. We were out and ran into one another within 5 mins of talking to me he left with a friend. I ended up running into him on Friday and he came back to my place (no sex just too drunk to go home) Well thats when (and he says he doesnt remember the conversation) he started talking about his ex wife. He caught her red handed cheating on him. He said that he was afriad to be with me becuase he is certian one of us will get hurt. When i talked to him about friday he said everthing was a blur so i didnt bring up the conversation. he was supposed to come over last night and didnt show, I havnt heard from him since. Am I wasting my time here? things are great when we are together and i dont want to give him up but im not sure i can take much more of this uncertainty.
The Voice Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 You are DEFINITLEY WASTING YOUR TIME!!! I grew up with 2 sisters and my Mother. I have forgotten more about how to treat a woman than most guys ever learn. And I guarantee that they didn't teach me to make plans with a girl than not show up. Has this loser ever heard of phone???? I would not bother calling my dog. But If I neglected to call a woman and just not even show up I AM the dog... Having baggage is fine! he can carry all the baggage he wants so long as the bottoms dont fall out of the bags and "ruin your shoes" so to speak. Every time he requests you to "hold off" due to his obsolete ex-wife" Every time he makes arrangements and then doesn't show every time you plead this forum for the Answer??? thats his baggage spilling all over your shoes. Im sorry but I have 0 % tolerance for any slip up that any guy makes because I am expected to achieve 100% success 100% of the time. This guy seems to have you in his pocket and I dont even have to meet him. Your posting your problems about this guy repeatedly if I understand you correctly. I sympathize with you. and I answer so strongly because I been where you are and have given someone WAAAAY more than they deserve. You have to understand I've seen this countless times and it never gets easier for you the giver. You're obviously are Attracted to this guy and you would not be here If you felt he was treating you fairly. Both of those things must be shared by both people. They both must be attracted to eachother and must both be considerate to eachother...otherwise yes its a waste of time...
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