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Our 1 year anniversary

teeda

By teeda
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Okay, i am a bit hurt by this but maybe someone can give a true opinion. Today is our 1 year. i dont know what i expexted but this is what "my suprise" evening was like... I wake up about 8:30am to find him out of the bed and spralled out on the couch eating a bagel over the computer. He then tells me that he will be going surfing untill about 12 noon. He got back about 11 and took a shower then says he is going to take a nap and will wake up about 2 and I should be ready to go out for my suprise. So about 2:30 we get in the car stop for gas and we get on the road to goto Jax Beach about 1 1/2 away. So okay we get there park and he says.. what do you want to do? NO PLANS! So of course we didnt find any restraunts that werent super crowded being a holiday and all. So we get back in the car and head BACK HOME! So we find a restraunt in the way home and have dinner he toast me and says "heres to us". Bill comes... "do you have a fefw dollars?" "SWould you like to go anywhere else? (keep in mind its only about 630pm now. Fighting back tears i just asked to go home. Then he plops back on the couch and turns on the tv and here i am feeling like WHAT THE HELL.

 

 

I fell SO unimportant and feeling like i should just leave his ass. I feel like thats what he is kinda asking me to do in a way. PLEASE HELP.

 

 

OH the kicker is two days ago i reminded him and last night he booked a gig for tonight and asked me if that was ok. I couldnt help but get emotional right then so he canceled and that was our day. Am I crazy to feel this way. I have a g=card and a gift for him but will not give to him now! HELP

britchick Established Member

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Well it's not a great anniversary but at least he remembered!

Some people just don't think it's a big deal. Instead of hoping he'll come up with something that you'll enjoy, next time, why not plan it together.

Give him the gift and card, you're angry now but I'm sure he has plenty of good points that you love.

Hitman10000 Established Member

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If he's doing what I think he's doing... I will not comment further, but I will tell you this, if you must be mad then be mad in front of me. You have that right and you should do it right away.

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