WaltJeffries Posted September 4, 2006 Posted September 4, 2006 The woman that I adore broke up with me for good this time. Yes, it has happened before. You see she is a Christian Woman that believes that it is against God's will for her to be happy with another man after she divorced her first husband (See Corinthians 1 Chap. 7) . She has been divorced for 10 years and I am the first person that she has dated since. The problem is that everytime we are together and are getting along great she feels feelings of guilt. It is something that she was always fighting in our relationship. That is, I think she is happy when we are together but she has these ever present feelings of guilt. Well she broke up with me for good about three weeks ago and she is bound and determined that it must now end. She would rather be alone the rest of her life then to break what she thinks is God's demand that she may not re-marry. We have seen a Chaplain about this and he says that he thinks God would forgive her if she were to pursue this relationship, but she still is not comfortable with that. I have to say that I am deeply in love with this woman. She is 55 and I am 50. I could be happy with her for the rest of my life but I guess it is not to be. People advise me not to call her and leave her alone for a while and maybe she will decide being alone is not what she wants. We have dated for 8 months. No sex, no real intimacy. The only real closeness is that we kiss but that was it. I don't understand why I love her so but I do. I just don't know what to do. On one hand I want to fight for her but on the other I know I must let her go. It is just so sad for me.
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