acidrein_08 Posted September 4, 2006 Posted September 4, 2006 I don't know if any of you remember from the past but here's my story. I dated this girl for a year and 1/2 when we broke up..it killed me and I was constantly depressed. We would be friends off and on and sometimes even act like we were b/f g/f until early this year. We started going back out and I never looked back...I forgot all about those days where I was sick and depressed and enjoyed all the time I got to spend with her over the summer. We had a perfect relationship, we trusted each other and loved each other completely, we practically lived together all summer. But last Thursday we got into a little arguement and I got mad and then she broke up with me, i tried calling her back like 20 times and then was so mad she was ignoring me just gave up. The next day I got on facebook.com and cancelled our relationship, then made plans. She called that evening but I ignored it. I went to a midnight madness game and gave this girl my armband to wear (something I had done to my girlfriend a lot). Well the next night she called and she was balling her eyes out saying she had sat all night at home friday crying and looking at our pics. She said she heard what I did and I told her lets meet, which only ended up in her crying even more when I told her to her face what I did. I didn't get anywhere with her that night and never cried, it was like I thought i had her. But the next day I went over and we talked for awhile, and I thought we would easily work things out and go back out, but a few hours after chillin in her room and I said do you want to go back out she said she didn't know, which later turned into a no. From then on i've been sick to my stomach, can't eat, can't think of my life without her, I mean we practically were together almost 3 years and everything i've done has been with her. She left today back to college and she said she knew how I felt and how she felt but she thought there was a reason we broke up, she said that friday she told some of her friends we had broke up but they all knew we were getting back together, until I cancelled our relationship...so she said she didn't want to cry and wanted to go, which I let her. It is just killing me I wish i would have anwered her call friday, never given that girl my armband and never cancelled our relationship...i love that girl with all I got and I feel like i've totally lost her.
Author acidrein_08 Posted September 5, 2006 Author Posted September 5, 2006 Some more information: She went back to college last week which is 2 hours away from here (where we grew up). She came home this weekend even though we broke up Thursday. She is stressed about her classes. She is upset I gave another girl an arm band at a game becuase it's something I did for her when we first started dating. I talked to her mom tonight for about an hour and she said that my ex had said I was the love of her life, had thought about not going back to school and marrying me before she decided to go back, she said my ex had thought it might be easier to concentrate on her school without a boyfriend. AHHH! WHAT DO I DO!
Bogun Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 The next day I got on facebook.com and cancelled our relationship, then made plans. You can cancel a relationship via a website now? wow.....
Shuffty Posted September 6, 2006 Posted September 6, 2006 Can i ask, is she a drama queen? Because it sounds like she's keeping you dangling because she likes the drama of breaking up/lets get married/how dare you give your armband to another girl (which btw i don't entirely understand, was it really valuable or something, an did you get it back? Coz that doesn't exactly sound like infidelity.) I'd like to tell you to steer clear of her, and other girls like her, but it's obvious from your post that that's never going to happen. You seriously need to show like you've got a pair, i know it's hard, but don't go running everytime she's bawling her eyes out about something that doesn't even mean anything. And don't call her twenty times or run off to college to ask for her hand in marriage, that's probably what she wants so she can shoot you down again. Why would she tell her mum you were 'the love of her life' right before she was about to leave? Apart from the keep you hanging on. It makes no sense. Not meaning to sound so unsympathetic, she can't be all bad if you love her so much. It's hard to see what's for the best when you feel that way about someone.
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