Possible problem with date later today

[alex200]

I have a date a little later on so I don't have much time to wait for responses but I'll read as many as I can before I go. My girlfriend likes to give me oral sex and I don't like receiveing it. How often is it ok for a man to reject his girlfriend's offer of oral sex?

 

Should I just tolerate it and accept it everytime she offers it? I don't know if she is going to initiate any sexual contact but if she does I need to know whether to accept or reject this time. I rejected her offer last week too.

[Sally00]

Just let her know how you feel. You can't keep living this lie and pretend that you like it or something. You surely don't want her to feel stupid in the end when you eventually end up telling her (most likely she's going to realize it later on if you don't tell her).

 

Communication is key. Be fair. Be honest with her.

[FredTravels]

The best solution would be to take me along. I can hide in the closet or under the bed, you run to the bathroom and stay there. When all is done, you slide back on the bed and tell her how great it was.

[stoopid_guy]

Communication is key. Be fair. Be honest with her.

Exactly. You tell a bunch of stangers on line how you feel, why not tell her?

[bluechocolate]

Just lie back & think of England (or America as the case may be).

[insomnie]

Why don't you like oral sex? Are there other kinds of sexual activities you enjoy? Next time she tries to go down on you, why don't you suggest you mess around, but in a way that's enjoyable for you both? You can reject her offer of a bj without rejecting her sexually...just offer her an alternative. Compromise. Pick a way that suits you both and have fun.

 

If you don't tell her you don't like getting bjs, she'll never know, and your sex life will end up SUCKING.

[Somethings]

Can you give me her number?