Shewasmyworld Posted September 4, 2006 Posted September 4, 2006 Hey all, Recently I broke up with my GF of 6 months. We were actually together for 3 months, and then summer came along and physically separated us for the other 3. We had such a passionate and exciting first three months, and last week, she called it off. I'm scared because I don't know what I've done to lose someone I cared about so much. I keep thinking that if it weren't for the distance, we would still be together. She claims that it was NOT the distance, but rather that she simply lost her feelings for me and does not love me the way she used to. I first noticed it when she became a little distant. She blamed it on the stress. But that was not like her. She used to run to me in her time of need. She finally opened up to tell me that I am closed-minded, unopen to change, and judgemental, amongst other things. I don't really see what she means by saying this because she won't directly tell me. She says I need to find out for myself. I would do anything to better myself as a person. Primarily for her, but also for myself. I want to change and do all i can to make her the happiest person alive. She says it can't be helped since its a part of who I am, and that can't be changed. It does not seem like a second chance is possible by the way she broke it off. Although in my opinion, it ended so abruptly after being apart for half of our relationship, I can't help but think she might still have some feelings left over. I started off calling her and begging and pleading for another chance. It wasn't working, and that's when i stumbled upon this forum. I read about NC and have tried it as of 4 days ago. It is KILLING me. I need to hear her sweet voice again. She is coming back for school soon, and I told her I'd give her space until she does come back so that I can see her then. Help me. I don't know what to do. I want to call her. I don't want to stress or smother her. I want to make her happy once again. I don't know what I've done.
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