Guest Posted September 4, 2006 Posted September 4, 2006 This guy has been very honest with his past about girls. Specifically when he was young 17-20 he use to date girls then dump them before they could dump him. He had to be in control of the situation. He is now in his 30's and I'm currently his girl. I've noticed since the begining (it's been 2 mths) that he will mention how some lady customer seems to be coming in more then once a day and will talk to him. He will then say..I hope she doesn't want more from me..I'm not interested at all..I love you..you are my girl. Or another example is..co-workers are flirting with him...again he will say I'm not interested I even tell them about you, my girl. This girl stuff he mentions is not everyday..but it's getting close to it. It's starting to annoy me, and I'm thinking he's thinking he's all that..which honestly he's not. He's not good looking either..but he is cute in a boyish way. Maybe he's a good flirt? Or charming with them? Why is telling me these things? Another thing I'm learning in this relationship is he seems almost uncomfortable if I pin him down and kiss him. He says he doesn't like to lose control..and laughs it off. He seems obsessed with saying "I'm going to drive you crazy (sexually) till you can't take it anymore. I wanna drive you wild so you want me so bad...etc.. He seems to focus only on me during foreplay..but trying so hard to drive me wild. I can only get so wild..I'm starting to think he wants me to beg him to just take me. He's not controlling in the everyday relationship at least it hasn't surfaced yet..but I'm watching for it. Any word of advice or caution?
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