phelix79 Posted September 4, 2006 Posted September 4, 2006 I have been trying to break up with this guy for awhile. I have told him many times to leave and he won't. I am so unhappy. He scares me. He's always yelling, slamming doors. Also my son, every time he walks in I get an evil look. I just want my life back. HELP!!!
Shuffty Posted September 7, 2006 Posted September 7, 2006 Do you have somewhere else to go, like a friends or your parents? Because if you do, i suggest you get out, now. There's no sense in staying with someone who scares you, if you can't do it for you, think about your son. If this guy won't leave, you'll have to, for your own good. What if you stay and he gets violent with one or both of you? Now's the time to be decisive, too many women leave it too late. You can do it. I'm not saying it will be easy, but you have to be strong and do it for you and your son, you both deserve a better life. Message back when you've dropped him and you're making a go of it, we need a happy ending dammit!
Josalina Posted September 8, 2006 Posted September 8, 2006 You have got to get out of this before it is to late! have u no where to go? u need to leave with your son, as it is obvious if this man has a problem he wont leave his own place, u need to make a clean cut away not just for you, but the sack of you son also you should be able to take what is rightfully yours in fact the courts will agree with that, have you told your partner how u feel, or r u scared of his reactions? if this is the case and you cant talk to him, you havent got a relationship worth saving in my opinion. I know it is scary but u can't go on like this, u said yourself you want your life back, so go get it girl. I believe when u leave u should call the police if you get any trouble, don't put up with it, life is to short for unhappiness, plan your escape today, dont deley. u deserve so much better, if you havent got any friends or family that will put you up go to the homeless or your nearest council and explain your situation. It will be alright in the end and if its not alright its not the end. take care.
Author phelix79 Posted September 9, 2006 Author Posted September 9, 2006 [My son and I are looking for a place to move. We have already got a plan of escape. His friends will get our things out in one day. Thank you so much. quote=Josalina;911656]You have got to get out of this before it is to late! have u no where to go? u need to leave with your son, as it is obvious if this man has a problem he wont leave his own place, u need to make a clean cut away not just for you, but the sack of you son also you should be able to take what is rightfully yours in fact the courts will agree with that, have you told your partner how u feel, or r u scared of his reactions? if this is the case and you cant talk to him, you havent got a relationship worth saving in my opinion. I know it is scary but u can't go on like this, u said yourself you want your life back, so go get it girl. I believe when u leave u should call the police if you get any trouble, don't put up with it, life is to short for unhappiness, plan your escape today, dont deley. u deserve so much better, if you havent got any friends or family that will put you up go to the homeless or your nearest council and explain your situation. It will be alright in the end and if its not alright its not the end. take care.
Author phelix79 Posted September 9, 2006 Author Posted September 9, 2006 My son and I are looking for a place to move. We have a plan in motion. We have a few people ready to move us as soon as we are ready
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